i know that premarital sex is wrong but how does God feel about making out? Such as French kissing? Any type of kissing? What are our boundaries as Christians?
2006-10-27 16:02:29 · 15 answers · asked by Jackie S 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hi Jackie,
As a Mom I tell my children that they should not be making out with anyone until they are married. There are several reasons that I make this a policy in my family. Kissing and touching and making out can easily lead to sex.
And it fills your head with sexual thoughts and desires.
Making out and sex are good, but should be left until you are married. Not even when you are engaged, but after marriage.
In Matthew 5:28 Jesus said, "but I say to you, that everyone who looks on a woman to lust for her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."
When you are making out you defiantly start lusting (desiring sex...)
So I would strongly recommend that you don't make out. God set boundaries for our thoughts words and deeds.
Save your heart and body and mind for your future spouse. I know it sounds old fashioned and "everyone is doing it". But stick with your convictions and wait for marriage.
2006-10-27 16:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by redeemed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I think that making out is not wrong, God wants us to love ourselves and others as well. Kissing is not a sin to God. Your boundaries as a Cristian is really up to your desires as a human being. Do what makes you feel good and makes you comftarble with the person you are kissing.
2006-10-27 16:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by yahoo guy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have to be led by the Holy Spirit....God will never tempt you or put you in a situation so that we would be tempted. It's easy for us to put ourselves in situations that we end up regretting because we begin to follow after our emotions. But ask God for wisdom and understanding and He will grant that to you, so you would have the wisdom not to put your self in that situation. And If we're not careful we will allow lust(not love) to come into play and blind us. 1 Corinthians says Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. So if it's anything other than that, it's not of God b/c God is Love........
God Bless You and continue to stand Firm in Christ
2006-10-27 16:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by DJones 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All the making out starts out fairly simple but each step leads to more and more. Even French kissing is crossing the line...leads to more.
It's passion and passion is hard to stop.
We give into temptation fairly easy , so Set standards and stick to them. Please.
No Sin No Shame. You will be respected a Lot more! And you will respect yourself:) You may feel peer pressure, but it's Your body and your soul involved. Pray.
2006-10-27 16:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by 4263 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Kiss. However you like and find enjoyable. Really. God doesn't even think about it. He'd probably chuckle (affectionately) if He knew you were asking this question on YA.
2006-10-27 16:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, I do not think that God would mind. He only would mind if it led to premarital sex.
2006-10-27 16:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
please do not listen to any of those ppl. they are ignorant a bunch of atheists. yes making out is a big DEAl, Christians as myself agree that sexual intimacy outside of the lifelong commitment of marriage is sinful. even if you just think about it its a sin (this is the basic stuff if you want further info plz visit this i brought out the topic of lust http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AicOuWnffoljBTGSryooZ3wezKIX?qid=20061026181525AAybIal&s=rating#answer-title-area
2006-10-27 16:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by egymoni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure its OK.
I've never heard anything against making out, and I'm a Christian.
2006-10-27 16:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by thats it 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No it's not. God loves his children to love each other and not fight.
2006-10-27 16:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Raven 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just a wild guess here, but if you get turned on, it is not good to the religious.
2006-10-27 16:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋