Some of you didn't understand my first question so i'll tell you again!!My parents won't let me go over to my bestfriends house after I spent the night already!!I like her older brother that is only 2 years older than her and 3 years older than me and he is not over 15!!My parents don't no he is coming over from Miami and they don't know I like him!!They won't let me go and I don't know why!!What do I do and what do I say??I really need help!!
2006-10-27 15:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by babygirl:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ive got 2 grown up daughters but when they were ur age I probably would have been just as protective... hang in with me ive got a solution but 1st can i pose a question to you? When you have a favourite article or a precious piece of jewellry say and someone was holding it over say a pier and you can felt theyre just about to drop it, how does that make you feel??? Nervous?? well, thats what your parents feel about your innocence and beauty. Your reputation is priceless and your selfesteem also, so they just want to protect you from others and from yourself, thats all, they just cherish and adore you.... MY ADVICE now is this, get your mum on her own , dont try and sweet talk her, shez too smart for that but be 100% honest with her, reason with her, explain your feelings to her. She was young once too with exactly the same feelings and desires as you have now. be cool with your mum, ask her to trust you and when she does, dont let her down. if you make her proud she will give you more freedom everytime you proove you can handle it..... good luck, remember honesty is the best policy.
2006-10-27 16:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by genieejj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking your parents why they won't let you spend the night with your friend again?Or are they not given you a direct answer?They might have a reason that they think is best for you not to know.There is no problem in liking your friend's brother.Everyone has childhood crushes.If they don't know he's coming then that can't be the reason.sometimes parents might not really have a reason for telling you no.They just want to know in an important situation that when they DO say no then you will respect them.Years down the road the answer may be reveiled.My parents told me after high school why they reacted the way they did about everything and I later understood and thanked them...
2006-10-27 16:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by jentoxic06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the Hell is wrong with you 15 is to old if you have a good personality and is cool. you can get someone around your age. I'm 12 years old and you know what I go with a 12 year old. When 15 year old boys are interested in me I say no and keep be interested in someone who's fresh out of elementary come on push in. It should make you think why would someone so oldon we got another year of middle school. A 12 yrs old is on a totally different level of maturity than a 15 yrs old. Well Im not tryin to be mean but think about it.
2006-10-27 16:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by QueenBeeNumbaOne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait so what i'm getting is that you are around 12ish if the guy is not over 15 and ur 3 years younger? your age might explain why your parents dont let you see him. in a way, i believe that your parents are sheltering you from dangers. i mean, honestly, the way your parents see it is that they dont feel safe allowing you to be around this guy alone. I wouldnt feel safe letting my young daughter hang around guys alone. it's just one of those things you have to deal with. there's not much you can do about this one, but i think your "liking" him is more an infatuation than it is anything else.
2006-10-27 15:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents know more than you think.If you keep bugging them to go over they will relize that you must have some alterior motive.Besides it is never good to get involved with your friends brother and if he is not over 15 and you are 3 years younger I agree with your parents!It will only add up to trouble!
2006-10-27 16:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are young and it is not fair that they won't let you enjoy your childhood. Tell them that it is only for one night. If they say no again ask then why won't they let you go.
2006-10-27 16:00:05 · answer #6 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents know more than you think! They just don't let you know that they know.
2006-10-27 16:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should helping around the house and maybe they will let you. Good luck
2006-10-27 15:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by sup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask them why. say something like "no disrespect, but i would like to know why i can't go over there." then if they don't give you any answer, don't push.
2006-10-27 15:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by becca j 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they know more than you realize.that's why.
2006-10-27 16:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋