if ur best friend was dating the guy u like and he broke up w/ her am i alooud too go for it. if not when would i bee able too
2006-10-27 15:53:04 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs. Jasper Hale 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never he's off limits...Sorry! (damn it I know I won't get a vote for best answer now)
2006-10-27 15:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First things first, work on your grammar. You don't want the guy to think he is dating someone who is mentally handicapped right off the bat. Secondly, ask your friend if it is alright with her, if she says no, decide how much you like having her as a best friend before making your move. If she says yes, well, you are homefree.
2006-10-27 22:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chris B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not the best course of action... Although all is fair in love and war (except when it USA vs any totalitarian regime)...
I'd give it at the very least 3 months...
2006-10-27 22:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with her, and she is upset about that, then no good can come of you going after the guy who she probably still thinks of as 'her man'. It sucks, I know, but not pissing off your friend is better than getting with this guy.
If you can, wait until she's over him.
2006-10-27 22:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by brian-upstairs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your best friend confide in you about him, and does she care that they are no longer together. Big question I know but what if you did and lost your best friend? The best time would be is to ask if she would mind and then see what happens
2006-10-27 22:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by BILLYBABES 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait for like a month then go for it. but make sure u tell ur friend. or else she'll feel betrayed
2006-10-27 22:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your friend ans see how she feels you don't have to tell her it's you and him if your worried about how she will react just do the old "oh someone i know" or "i saw on oprah" and ask her oppinion.
then depending on how she feels it upto you to decide friend, lover or both and if both could you be with him and not get jellous
2006-10-27 23:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure ya could, as long as your willing to risk losing your friend. the rules for these things are really set by the two friends.
2006-10-27 22:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by cantor85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should check with your friend on that one. If you go out with him before she's over it your friendship might be damaged or could even end
2006-10-27 22:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it would be OK to go for him before someone else gets to him...I don't see any reason to wait too long....
2006-10-27 22:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you mastered the english language
2006-10-27 22:55:54 · answer #11 · answered by Dave S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋