How do you feel when people quote: tis better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all? It might sound silly but, I say If I have never loved at all, then I would have never grown as a person, but what do you think?
2006-10-27 15:52:55 · 13 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with you lin!
we set out on our lives always looking for more..and finally you fall in love and you are satisfied..that is what we are all after...satisfaction....and if it works out..you are lucky if not...you have tasted sucess.the ultimate pleasure..not sex...but satisfaction..something people never have till the time they are on their deathbeds to..that is also a reason why it is so hard to forget first loves...but on thw whole i think you grow as a person and above all you evolve...the pain of a lost love make your more mature and love your self more...and above all...you have memories which are unique ..no one ever had anything like that and no one will...
2006-10-27 15:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it have to be love of a person that makes you grow? Or can it be just 'love' of anything? What is "growing" as a person really? Do I "grow" more if I love more things? Too many variables in this to make a flat answer about everyone. It's one of those quotes that you can bend around to fit it to your situation and make yourself feel better.lol
2006-10-27 22:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by justforthisonepost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Love - never ended story. You want it, you got it, you lost it, you miss it. What to do to keep it forever next time? I'm sure I cant love anybody like I imagine to be. Love is fiction in partnership - somebody should find new word for love - like supposed to be.
2006-10-27 23:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you totally i mean i was really in love with a boy that was my best friend. in fact apart of me still loves him very much. i think it is beitter to have loved and lost because you get to experience all of the precious things about love and being in a realationship and well to have never loved at all is just plain sad.
2006-10-27 22:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i look at it is this way. when you have loved and lost, it kinda helps you mature if you will. it makes you stronger as a person. if you have never loved at all, then you really havent enjoyed the true experience of life have you? love is just one of those experiences that as bad as it may seem at the moment, you'll always remember those experiences because they helped shape who you have become. that's my 2 cents.
2006-10-27 22:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's is the point...if you fall in love you get to experience all kinds of feelings even if u end up hurt...so better know what love is then
2006-10-27 22:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, love is what keeps us human. SOmetimes you need to loose your love to understand how deep an emotion can be. I say let our emotions rule more than our heads, LOVE one another and we will all be happier.
2006-10-27 22:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by mascovilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right. I don't think you can be a complete person without experiencing love in your life. Everything we go through, makes us who we are.
2006-10-27 22:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if you never have loved ,, then you would not know how to love .
2006-10-27 23:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely agree!! we can't be who we are today without taking the journey to get here.
2006-10-27 22:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋