You know each of us have a crush when is young. But i got my crushes until now. Now either is love or obssesion.For more than half of the year i can't take my head from him. Is my ex teacher.
But i'm still in the same highschool with him. And wired i have all of my classes in the same building with him. There are like 5 buildings. I also have one class that is next to his door. Ok! Last semester he helped me a lot . He really helped me! Never gave me a sign that he want more from me than being his student. But man what i saw in this man i didn't see in anybody else. The way he smiles, the way he walks ,and he is so smart. Usually i'm the crazy girl with an answer for everything. I'm not a smart ***, and i don't answer when i'm not suppose to. I'm saying that i usually know what i am doing, but he makes me see the world from a different angle. I learned so many stuffs from him. I was the only student that he really apreciated in front of other students. Once he said "I love this girl"
2006-10-27 15:52:02 · 6 answers · asked by cuttiegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 , he is 25. He is not married , and no kids. I saw many sensible parts of him than any other student saw. I don't want a relationship with him now. Also i cauhgt up some signs that he will probably like me more , but i turn it off. When i showed him a little bit more what is my head , he turned off. Sometimes he wants to talk with me next he reject me and so do i .When he pays attention to me i reject it and so on. I don't want any problems is my last year of high school. I want to enjoy it. But i can't whithout knowing his real feelings.
2006-10-27 15:57:34 · update #1
Okay... this one's a toughie!
First of all, since he is your teacher (or former teacher) he is in a position of trust so it would be illegal for him to have a relationship (other than friendship) with you. Its good that he has helped you a lot. That means that he's a good role model. Its good that he recognizes that you are an intelligent individual. I'm glad that he has taught you to look at the world from a different perspective. That's a sign of a good teacher. Also, when he said "I love his girl," I'm betting it was in a father-daughter sense. But please remember that if you approach him in a way that shows you want to be more than just his student, it will embarrass you and it will put his reputation and carreer at risk.
My advice to you is to continue to look up to this teacher, he is a good role model. But please, don't consume every waking moment thinking of him. It will hurt you in the end. Be the rational, respectable individual that he sees you as.
There's nothing wrong with a student having a crush on a teacher, as long as it stays as just a crush.
And when you leave high school, be sure to tell him what an influential person he was for you, and how much you respect him.
Good luck with school work and enjoy this teacher's attention!
2006-10-27 16:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by wendiann2222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you have your last day . Then tell him in case he feels the same way. Even if your 18, some states have student-teacher laws in place. Once you are no longer a student & 18 or more anything goes. Good Luck
2006-10-27 23:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by chuck16023 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's a pretty complicated situation. It might be hard, but you should probably wait till you're 18 until you tell him how you feel. Otherwise, if you start a relationship, it won't really be legal and he has a risk of losing his job.
2006-10-27 22:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by liv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much older is this guy than you? Slow down sweaty. I know how it is to have a crush, but not on a teacher. if you feel in your heart that he is the one, then go for it. just don't rush into anything.
2006-10-27 22:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Perfectly Insane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's illegal. wait until you're 18 or over 18 and out of high school
2006-10-27 22:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you want him to lose everything wait until you are18.
2006-10-27 22:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋