there is this boy that i like. but i dont know if he likes me too. we have so much fun together and i cant tell him anything and everything. i mean everytime i say something that has to do with a boy he keeps saying that the right guy will come slong all you have to do is wait and see. he might be some one you know and i dont know if he is talkin about himself or someone else. help meh please
2006-10-27 15:39:18 · 22 answers · asked by mzsweetz2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I can say is continue being Friends for now but You should eventually tell Him how You feel about Him--but don't let it ruin Your Friendship if it don't work out.
2006-10-27 15:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by craigyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really need any help. If he is the right one for you, he will be the last face you see when you go to sleep and the first face you will want to see when you wake up.
There are times when you have a friend but he is not your boyfriend. You have a good time with him because he is your friend. If you try to make him your boyfriend it will mess up you friendship. Think about the way the guy makes you feel. If he is just a friend, the feeling will be mild compare to the way your heart will race when you think about the guy who is really your true love. Be sure about your feelings before you approach him to be a boyfriend. Why not just wait and see like he said.
2006-10-27 22:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Big mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time or his. Tell him how you feel right now and see if he feels the same. When you look back on this situation in a year you will laugh at yourself if you see that you spent two months dragging yourself through this worry. Personally, I think he is talking about himself. He just may not have the cajones to ask you out. Life is short. Be straight with him and move on either with or without him. I'm a guy and I love it when the girl makes the first move, takes pressure off of me. good luck
2006-10-27 22:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by justforthisonepost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when a guy says "the right guy will come along", he doesnt really like you. But just cuz you like him doesnt mean you HAVE to be in a relationship. see, the way i look at it is if the guy doesnt like you, wouldnt it be better to have the friendship the way it is now, instead of going into a relationshiop with him, possibly losing it, and never talkin to him again. but aside from that, what he does for, you have a special guy on your hands. keep that relationship strong because it'll help you down the road.
2006-10-27 22:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Further investigation a must. Good enough to have a good time, next step, or what else you would want, would be sexual. If a relation starts off real hot it can only cool down. If on the other hand, it's an easy does it, fun loving one, it will grow and blossom.
God bless us all...
2006-10-27 22:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him like are you the I've been waiting for because you keep saying he might be someone you know and ar eyou that someone if he says yes thenhey yall got a good relationship but if he says no then yall got a stronger friendship.
2006-10-27 22:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Shakira R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I beleive that he speeks of himself being the "right guy". Maybe you should talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel. The worst that could happen is you get a little embarassed. But think of how great it would be if it turns out for the better. Its worth a shot.
2006-10-27 22:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by dolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a [teen] guy, and I know this stuff. If he acts flirty, he likes you, but what IS flirty?
Guys flirt as kind of as a joke, like 'petting' or touching your hair or just trying to get their hands on you in any way. They might even say 'I love you' in a joking way, but when they say it, they mean it. They're not straight up, they're *hint*ful.
if you right them a note or ask your friend to ask him, they'll say, "I hate when girls right notes" or "Why are they soo flippin' chicken, why not ask me theirselves?"
Just ask him. FACE TO FACE. It will be nervous, but it's not like he'll say "No JERK" or "hell no!" If he's your friend, he'll probabally say yes. GO FOR IT, guys are desprate.
2006-10-27 22:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by John F. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can we help in a situation like this?
I would just back off and not make him think you are that interested.
Just be friends and see if he is interested. Many relationships are One sided. Those who care the most usually get hurt the most. Of course theres a few exceptions........just take it easy for now.
2006-10-27 22:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, don't worry so much, you say you have lots of fun together, so Cherish that for now, if there is chemistry love will find its way alone.
Trust me have fun, learn more about him, only time will say.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 22:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋