my boyfriend lives with me and my lil sister doesnt like him AT ALL! i feel really bad cuz everyone else in my family loves him and he really tries to make things work but no matter what he or i do she wont get over herself and see that i love him. i choose my sister over him and he knows that but she is pushing us apart, i dont wanna loose him! it would help i guess if he moved out but he has nowhere else to go!
2006-10-27 15:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by tonni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has she given u any reasons why she doesn't like him? Is there possibly something she knows about him & she's afraid u'll get hurt? Maybe she's just being over protective too. Sorry to hear that. Have you just sat down with her? you, her & him & just brought this up to her. Like how she makes things difficult for you two and see y she does it?
2006-10-27 15:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do have a dilemma, however the problem really is more your sisters than its yours, let her own it. we can all get along if we CHOOSE to, she sounds immature, maybe jeleous, maybe shez looking for some attention. tell your man not to turn himself inside-out trying to please anyone but you of course. keep away from your sister as much as possible when youre with him and if she asks why tell her calmly what you see as the problem and maybe she might learn and grow from it... a little bit of patience and kindness can go a long way, she might be missing YOU. good luck.
2006-10-27 15:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by genieejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your sister's job to pick who you are with.
Not knowing what your age and her age is it is hard to say.
He doesn't have anywhere to go? Is he unemployed? Maybe that is why your sister doesn't care. Maybe you need to think about that too......can he support you in a relationship?
Maybe you need to move out too?
There is a time to grow up and live on your own.
2006-10-27 15:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 of 3 things:
1. Kill your sister (Not Recommended)
2. Your BF and sis are having an affair (Not likely)
3. Have a heart to heart talk with her (BINGO!)
2006-10-27 15:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by vegasbrother99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk wiith her. shes pribably just sad that u have a guy in ur life and u wont have any time for her anymore. Good Luck!!
2006-10-27 15:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she???? And I don't think that you should let her push you two apart.....
2006-10-27 15:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about your sister, its you who is loving the guy, not her!
2006-10-27 15:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her
2006-10-27 15:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
punch her in the gunt
2006-10-27 15:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by telumdedeus 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell her to lighten up.
2006-10-27 15:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋