hi my husband is comeing home and this is are first deployment and i was wondering how they are wean they come home? thank you meadow
2006-10-27 15:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by meadowkelley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well hun lets see im retired navy so lets go . first off horny . second hungry for things they couldnt get while gone. also tired remeber the time change thing he might sleep all day . mostly glad to be home . he probably gonna want to go out to eat alot.hes gonna want to go on a trip to see family rent a rv from mwr thats what i did after my first its easyer to get one in the winter . let him enjoy his time home feed him in bed . dont wanna sound like a perv but lots of sex hes gonna want it so be ready lol . hope he gets home safe
2006-10-27 15:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where he was, how he was before he left, and what kind of things he saw during his deployment. My boyfriend was in Iraq for a year. When he first got home he was pretty serious. He joked around a lot before he left, but came home more serious. However, that eventually went away and he went back to his old self. However, he's had some problems emotionally. He gets depressed sometimes for no reason. All in all, he's a better person. He's grown up a lot. Just be there for him, support him, and be understanding if he doesn't seem the same for awhile. Chances are you have changed too. I know I did.
2006-10-27 22:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband first came home after his first deployment he was shy and kind of stood out of the limelight. He had been in a different world and had seen and heard things that we would hope to never see or think about. Give him time and understand what he is going through-if things seem different.
But, it depends on what/where his deployment was and what was involved. Good luck and enjoy him as much as you can, until his next deployment.
2006-10-27 22:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the link below, their opening article is on post deployment readjustment. You can also take advantage of their councilor referrals and other resources. Or your base family support office. Why the referrals? Everyone's deployment experience is different, radically so, and the expertise of an experienced support office will be far better than any advice given here.
2006-10-27 22:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by klingongac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I have a friend whose hubby was in Iraq and before they got home they talked to the wives about what to expect over the next few weeks, months. They will answer any and all questions. I'd call the base where he's stationed through and they can help you, also find other wives and get together with them and stay in touch with them you'll need a support team.
2006-10-27 22:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are either really quiet, or really angry. Caused by a daily overdose of seeing things blown up around them. They go back to life where the most exciting thing in a day is watching the sun go down. Takes a while to slow down the body. Aerobics and stretching every day go a LONG way to helping the body cope. Sitting around does nothing to help. You HAVE to find ways to release all the tension.
2006-10-27 22:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first husband was in jail for 2.5yrs. we didnt have any sexual contact during that whole time and i stayed faithful so i was just as scared, nervous and jittery about it the first time we were able to be alone together again, it was like we were both virgins again............good luck. ENJOY!!!!
2006-10-27 22:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by genieejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋