I wish he would do something better with his life... he is pretty lazy..and I don't like that.
2006-10-27 15:33:52 · 11 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him an ultimatum say if this relationship is gonna be serious you better shape up!! If you feel this relationship could lead to something serious like marriage just tell him im giving you 3 months to get this straight if you dont improve in these 3 months im out the door!! and do it dont be afraid, if he really cares about your relationship together he will do something about it!!
2006-10-27 15:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the loser graduate high school? Perhaps you can get him interested in a trade, maybe repairing cars, or even get him to get a commercial drivers license... then if he gets a job driving, you wont have to see him anymore... kidding, seriously, how old is he, tell him you need more in your life, and if he can't make the sacrifice then its time to mosey on down the road darlin...
2006-10-27 22:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by LEO H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,istead of saying,"You're a huge loser that's not going anywhere in life.",say,"Hey! Listen to this great job I heard about!" Recommend jobs every chance you get.Some people become successful without College.
2006-10-27 22:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just may not have found his one thing that he can really excel at. Why not encourage him to take a career assessment at your local community college. Then once you find out what he would really do well with, help him to search for job opportunities in that field
2006-10-27 22:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Big mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help who you love, but you can help who you end up with. Do you want to the tied up the rest of your life with a loser (your words). Find someone else.
2006-10-27 22:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you noticed all of those things about him you are not his muse!! You need to move on!! If you can't motivate your man to want better it's time to go!! Be a friend
2006-10-27 22:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you won't don't want to date a waste of space. He'll change his ways if he doesn't want to lose you and if he don't change. Drop his a** cause he'll always be a loser.
2006-10-27 22:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. better leave him, good for both of you. your words --" loser" means that you think that you are better than that idiot.
respect your BF.talk to him and see what plans he has and tell him what you expect from him.
2006-10-27 22:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses. If he won't do anything for himself now, how can he do anything for you later? Unless you want to support him.
2006-10-27 22:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. he is going to be bad news. he will only give you grief.and you will be the one supporting him
2006-10-27 22:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Curious2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋