i am 16 years. i like this girl. i asked her if she likes me but she no. but she still shows signs that she does. like i would say wassup to her and she'll smile and if i give her a little tap on her hand she would do right back. i would pass by her and she would grab my psp and look at it and smile. she would call by my real name instead of a pet name. i'm not one of the most popular guys in school but when i was younger she used to like me and that was around 3 years ago. but sometimes i would see her in the hallway and she would ignore me but sometimes she would push me and tell me to get to class. i dont like none of the kids she hangs out with but she acts completely different outside of school or when me and her are alone. i think she wanted me to make the 1st move but today after school i saw all over some other guy. i heard some rumors that she was a little ****. but i still want to find out myself but i think i got proof today. i still want to know what i should do.
2006-10-27 15:33:20 · 8 answers · asked by EJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm assuming that this girl's friends probably don't like you if you don't like them? So they will be going "EW!" when she talks about you. So her friends could be pressuring her not to see you and she doesn't want to go against them.
The true test of her affections comes when she isn't around them. At school, she could just be being coy and cute and goofing around when she does those things with you. One thing you could do to try her out is to invite her over to watch a concert or movie or something. Or maybe ask her to a place for lunch or dinner. Then, when you have her alone, put your hand on her knee or give her a kiss. If she takes it, then there is a sign that she likes you. But the key here is to not show her too much affection around her friends, I'd say. She doesn't want them gossipping about you. These contains a lot of guesswork, but from what you say about how she treats you out of class, that's a pretty good signal. Do what I suggest...get her out of class and test her gently. You might just get laid!
2006-10-27 15:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am certain she does like you. She sounds confused and like she is trying to hard to fit in with the so called cool kids. She may also have problems at home that may lead to acting out. Be patient and supportive she will come around.
2006-10-27 15:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because ladies are so judgemental over different ladies. There are generally a million of two factor happeneing, if now not each! a million- Jealous: She is generally jealous of her, on the grounds that she has a higher frame, prettier face, extra peers, and/or higher grades. two- She just like the boy that like the woman with giant hips: So she makes herself believe higher through "making amusing" of the woman with giant hips!
2016-09-01 03:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is at an experimental stage and girls love attention , the more you give her the more she thinks she has you wrapped around her finger..give her a run for the money and ask someone else out , especially if you saw her all over some dude...
2006-10-27 15:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Uma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometime that is just a way of girls saying that they wan't you and them too become really good frineds.... before yall go any farther...cuz thats what I do... they act like they like you...but really they just want to be friends with you first..tehn take it a little bit farther! and if you ask her if she likes you OF COURSE she's gonna say no....b-cuz she doesn't know if you like her....
2006-10-27 15:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a decent guy... you can do better than her...
esp if she was looking at you down there and then smiling...
she's a hoe in the making to be honest..
stay away!
you can do better!
2006-10-27 15:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by WiseWisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you earlier..she likes you..but she is acting different when her friends are about.
2006-10-27 15:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget this girl man. this has trouble written all over it.
2006-10-27 15:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by hosebroom1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋