I would like to meet a nice man(not a leach) to spend time with. Meeting someone in a bar hasn't work for me in the past. I'v given that scene up. But the bar seems to be the only place where people are not shy and will come right out and let you know if they are interested in getting to know you. I think men at other places(grocery stores or even at the work place) don't make that move to let you know if they want to talk to you. Do guys assume a woman is married if they see her in a grocery store? Or if he sees her shoe shopping with her kids, does he think she has a husband? Will he take the chance and start a conversation? Who has a better chance of meeting a woman on any given night....the man in the bar or the man in the grocery store? Hmm
2006-10-27 15:29:15 · 3 answers · asked by cajun_selena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are fewer opportunities when you are older. Just get involved in something you are interested in and you will meet someone. It doesn't have to be the bar scene - just stay involved in life.
2006-10-27 15:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by redbirdflying1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate cruising the bar also, but its easier to talk to women when they have a couple and let thier gaurd down a little. i don't want the drunk fallen down woman though just seems they are more relaxed and willing to talk. it also doesn't hurt my courage after a couple of beers. :)
2006-10-27 15:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can find one here if you try hard enough. Bars are for drunk cheaters looking to score. BTW where are you?
2006-10-27 16:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋