2006-10-27 15:26:58 · 55 answers · asked by Kathy is here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DONT KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS!!IM UPSET!!
2006-10-27 15:29:14 · update #1
No..it could be a family member or something important about work...calm down you jealous control freak..i feel sorry for your man having to put up with you.
2006-10-27 15:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should definitely be concerned. A woman who keeps calling when she knows your man is "taken," isn't respecting you or your relationship. She's interested in him and in taking him way, in all probability.
Unfortunately, he's going to have to be the one to tell her to take a hike. If he is too shy to do that, then you'll have to ask him to give her the "cold phase out." This means that he must avoid answering her calls and not talk to her. Eventually, she'll get the message. If he's really you're man, you'll want to work together to get rid of this annoying caller. Women like this come along now and then, and solidarity on you and your guy's behalf is the best way to handle it.
2006-10-27 15:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very politely (I know that might be hard) ask who it is and what they are calling in reference to. If they get huffy with you, continue to be polite and say, I can't help you if you don't tell me what you need. If they still act nasty then just hang up, don't say anything else. If it is another woman after him then they will keep calling because they think it will cause problems between you and him which might open a window for them to get at him. If they tell you something about him, then address it with him, not the woman. She can tell you anything. And if it becomes too much or he isn't willing to be honest, then you don't need him.
Life is too short to be dealing with a lot of drama.
2006-10-27 15:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by hd112596 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont start out angry... it will lead you down a path that you really dont want to go down.
You dont want to sneak around behind your man's back, but that doesnt mean you cant learn about this other girl.
Also, you probably will want to talk to your boyfriend about her, just be careful not to come off as over-jealous. It could be a harmless co-worker calling about work or something.
It's important not to jump to conclusions before you have the facts.
2006-10-27 15:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by brian-upstairs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd be upset if I didn't know who they were. The next time one calls I'd say something like this "no he's not here right now but this is his girlfriend can I take a message ;o) " This might put a stop to their calling ;o) Good luck to u.
2006-10-27 15:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she calls and she refuses to leave messages or her name or what its regarding, then yes, you might have a reason to be angry.
But in all fairness, some creditors do this. Ask for someone using only thier first name in order to try and get them on the phone and if you say they arent there, they refuse to leave a message and that they will call back.
2006-10-27 15:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angry? Why, just because she calls? Has your man gave you any reason not to trust him or are you just acting jealous and insecure? Good god woman, are you gonna get angry anytime a woman calls? What if it was a nurse from the doctor's office, etc.?
2006-10-27 15:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes -- but be mad at him, how else would she be able to contact him with out him giving her details, she is being stung on just like yourself, and if you both get together you can let the town know that he is nothing but a dog, don't let a man mess with you life, by the way i am a married man, and i am giving you the same advice that i give my daughter, good luck in life.
2006-10-27 15:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lumper35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should be angry but not at the female calling your house but your man because he doesn't respect you enough to be faithful or have some female calling the house. Next time she calls have a conversion with her and find out how they met and everything before you confront him.
2006-10-27 15:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Shakira R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends. Is she a co-worker? Is she calling during business hours? Who is she? Will he tell you? Does he talk in front of you? Does he talk "in code"? You know the answer, ask yourself. You know more than anyone here does, you are just wanting us to give you that backbone to read between the lines. You deserve better than a man who is going to disrespect you. Stay strong!
2006-10-27 15:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't think that she would be calling unless they had some type of history. my husband's exwife called all of the time when we first got together but I put an end to it. If you don't it will drive you crazy and eventually drive you apart. Find out what is going on and deal with it. Good Luck.....
PS...don't let it upset you....if he is doing something to hurt you he isn't worth the heartache!
2006-10-27 15:30:20 · answer #11 · answered by fruitylil'me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋