I asked if she would go out with me and she said maybe if her boyfriend and her were over. ( i know it's weird but i love her) so they finally broke up because he's a jerk. but anyway, so lately we've been talking alot and stuff but she dosen't act weird around me like other people say. They say that if they like you they'll act funny around you. But when i'm talking with my other friends they'll say something weird and she'll hide behind me and grab my arm. But i don't know if i should ask her out or leave her alone because she broke up with him about 3 days ago. So she got emmotional and said she was ugly and she'll never date a guy again. So i said there's people that will never brake up with you and like you. She said who and i said me. She said she didn't know what 2 say. and we talk alot for the past 2 years And what i want to say is "well if you need a boyfriend i'm single" but that sounds corny. So when should i ask her out and should I Do you think she loves me?
2006-10-27 15:26:56 · 8 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out now..I dont think she loves you..its a bit early for that.
2006-10-27 15:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about the love thing but here's what i have to say...
wait a little longer until she is more emotionally stable, that means at a a minimum a week but i would say longer in this case. Also you want to wait because you could end up just being her rebound and i don't think you want that.
keep close to her though and when you do ask her out don't say "well if you need a boyfriend i'm single" make her feel special unlike her other boyfriend and she will polly feel better about things with u guys.
also tell her that she isn't ugly and help build up her self esteem!
good luck...hope things work out cuz you seem like a good guy.
2006-10-27 22:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by ice_babe_232 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not gonna say that she loves you, but she might like you. and as a starting relationship, i wouldnt push it furthur than that really. theres so many things to do if you wanna ask this girl out. personally i love this one that uses a fortune cookie. it doesnt even really have to AZMAZINGLY romantic, just go to some chinese place with her and buy her food and stuff like that. and at the end when the bill comes with the fortune cookies give her a custom one you made.(shows how to make it below) hopefully it'll work for you. ive done it twice and its worked. so, g'luck with the next move.
the way to make them is get a fortune cookie and put it in the microwave for like 1-3 seconds. the cookie will soften and you'll be able to get the cookie flat. take out the fortune and insert one that you typed up (have it say like a personal message and on the other side say will you go out with me). then warm up the cookie again 1-3 seconds and quickly, VERY quickly put the fortune in place and fold the cookie back into its original form. after it cools down a bit and can keep its form, put it in the fridge so it cools. and there you go. fortune cookie extravaganza
2006-10-27 22:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a strong word, love takes time and trust, she may need a little space for a while to get over her last fella but before u ask her out give her time to get over him first and comfort her and what not, u should wait tho, u dont want to be a rebound because u culd get seriously hurt
2006-10-27 22:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by amandas_mumma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone for a while. just let her kno that u'll be by her side whenever she needs a friend. tell her that she has nuthin to worri bout. let her kno that u think she is the most beautiful person u have ever seen, and also let her kno how much u respect her.
2006-10-27 22:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Go ahead and ask her out. Continue to be her friend and it won't be long before you are lovers.
Best wishes.
2006-10-27 22:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think she loves you but it sounds like she likes you. she's just out of a relationship. take it slow. hang out and things will naturally evolve if it was meant to be, i swear
2006-10-27 22:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by Becca R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her as a friend, but do not wait too long, or you will miss your chance.
2006-10-27 22:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋