This boy likes meh but i dont like him the way that he likes me. i only like him a friend. he asked meh out and i told him that i wanted to jus be friends because i dont look him like that. it wouldnt be fair for him and it wouldnt be fair for meh. cause i wouldnt act like his grlfrewn and i wouldnt be able to talk to the guy that i like. Am i messed up?
2006-10-27 15:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by mzsweetz2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what you want. He knows what he wants.
If you both do not want the same thing, then either you meet a compromise that is suitable for both of you, or go your separate ways.
You do NOT have to conform to what HE wants.
2006-10-27 15:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, absolutely not. I had the same exact problem. U cant help how u feel, and they need to understand that. If u do go out with a guy and u no u dont like them that way, itll only be hurting urself and him. so just stay really good friends with him.
2006-10-27 15:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are messed up. Let him know that you require him to be more patient. What he wants is normal. Be a little hard to get, and show him that you have a right to expect him to behave himself. He will respect you for it. An easy girl will get a reputation and everyone will expect you to be something youre not.
2006-10-27 15:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Setting correct boundaries at the beginning is a good thing to do. You aren't messed up-leading him on would be messed up.
2006-10-27 15:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by erewhon77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not messed up u did the right thing. it seems like u got a good head on that shoulder of urs.
and if ur friend is understanding then he will understand too dont worry
good luck
2006-10-27 15:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be messed up, but your spelling certainly is. there is a handy tool on the right hand side of the answer/question box called " Check spelling, I believe you dould benefit from it's use.
2006-10-27 15:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think you were messed up if you told him the truth? Better that than to lead him on.
2006-10-27 15:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not messed up ....you told him how you feel, So if he doesn't like it then move on.
2006-10-27 15:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your messed up
2006-10-27 15:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋