I still liked this girl after she rejected me. Now alot of people know about me asking her out and now some of her friends said to ask her out again on Monday and my friends also agreed. I'm not sure if I should or not but right now I dont know what to do. I NEED YOUR HELP
2006-10-27 15:03:15 · 22 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't believe her friends. If you already got rejected move on. Find a nice girl who will bring out the best in you. Ignore all the stupid drama. :)
2006-10-27 15:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon what she said when she rejected you. Was it a flat out rejection? Did she leave a little wiggle room with "I'm sorry, I'm so busy right now, it's just a bad time" or words to that effect. It is also important how she rejected you. Was she aware of your feelings when she said no? Was it a rather cold rejection? You are the one who was standing in front of her so only you can judge whether 1) She outright rejected you and did so in a way that was not considerate of your feelings or 2) She left a little "maybe" in there (think back) and was really kind of sweet in her rejection.
If number one, move on. If she is being coy she will approach you sometime and then you have to judge whether or not she is sincere.
If number two, think of a better date/venue/whatever and ask her if she might be free on that day to do (fill in blank). Give her at least a week's notice, preferably two weeks or so.
There. Now you decide what you are going to do. Good luck.
2006-10-27 15:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends look at things like do you and her share the same friends do u talk to her often. when most people like someone else they somehow think that they can get them in a blink of an eye so think outside of that and be realistic, do you really think you have a chance with her. if you say yes then id say go for her again
2006-10-27 15:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No confusion here, she said no, don't be pathetic, the best revenge is for her to see you having a good time with someone else.
Also if she is having such a change of heart let her ask you out.
2006-10-27 15:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, Do not ask her out again!! If she wants to go out with you she will approach you. Her friends are being ignorant. Distance yourself for a while from this whole situation and look elsewhere for a date.
2006-10-27 15:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her directly, if you can......and privately. There is nothing more confusing than receiving alot of unsolicited advice and comments. Go right to the source.......HER. You say you like her....talk to her. Do you both want to go forward and date.......that seems to be the question right now. Define what you have and what you both want and go from there! Good Luck
2006-10-27 15:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it;s the year 2006 so you shall get the answer. it goes on all over. your not the only one,this will not help now , but you will look back at this and smile and say to your self well i was growing up then have your self a good life thank-you
2006-10-27 15:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by oop139gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna go out with her? Ignore her, go out with someone else. She's playin' you, along with her friends. You need to play her game only better. Become a door mat and she'll step on you.
2006-10-27 15:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by rsqur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always a bad idea when all the friends are involved. It's stupid. Just ignore them all and make up your own mind and stop telling them what is going on.
2006-10-27 15:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do as you feel....but if i were you i would play it smart...hold back....pretend that you have moved on and she lost something she could have had...be ur self dont be an as*hole, just be more active...be happy as usual..put up a good act..talk to more women in front of her...see how this works for a few days a week at the most...then come back and we can decide on what to do next..i can assure you ...you will have her in 2 weeks if you do as i suggest or improve on it!
2006-10-27 15:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋