i followed this guy i like to his locker because i wanted to stick this poem i wrote in there and then some of my friends teasingly lovingly accused me of stalking him. it kinda hurt and scared me. then one day i was in the hallway and i saw him and called his name and....ran. i felt so horrible i wanted more than anything for someone to run me over. everytime i see him i blush and get all nervous. and today i looked him up on myspace. and the other day i saw him kissing his girlfriend and i almost collapsed. idk what to do. i think he might like me but i don't want to ask him and him freak out and never talk to me again. so confused. OH! and to make matters worse he is my x-boyfriend's stepbrother! i am not sure what to do. help please.
2006-10-27 14:53:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be cool. the blushing/screaming/running thing is flattering to him but will soon become wierd and freaky. tell him ya like him. whats he gonna do? take away your birthday? if hes a jerk when ya tell him then he helped you from wasting your time. thank him and find another boy to blush/scream/run away from! lol
2006-10-27 14:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your a stalker you sure are the weakest one I've ever heard of. You really are just a normal girl with normal feelings, and normal apprehensions to approaching a possible boyfriend. My guess is your still in high school, so, just because he has a possible girl friend doesn't mean it's chiseled in stone. This is the time when people try on different people. If they are dating someone and then date someone else, it doesn't mean they're a two timer all the rest of their lives. You need to get that poem back to that locker. A little note would be wise to. Just to let him know you are interested. If your shy write that too, and request that if he is not interested to wait and tell you when you are alone because you will be so embarrassed, and because you've never done this before. If you write that up front no guy is going to make you feel awkward. At least not on purpose.
2006-10-27 15:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP
take a deep breath
now put him out of your mind, and keep him out of your mind, at least as long as he has a girlfriend. If and when they break u p feel free to make any move you can to get his attention, but until then back off. He is not free for the taking.
2006-10-27 14:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first you are in school so I doubt seeing him in hallways or following him to his locker is 'stalking', unless you ustart feeling obseced with it I would worry too much. on the other hand try to find another guy this one might have too much baggage right now.
2006-10-27 14:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur not a stalker, ur just a silly teenager who is shy and is a big chicken. Don't do the name shoutign thing anymore, it's childish.
If ya like him, just go and say hi. Talk to him LIKE NORMAL. Get to know him. He's just a human.
Who knows, after you talk to him, you may not like him so much.
2006-10-27 14:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just back off -- you don't want to come off as disrespectful of his personal space.
Plus, I think if he's your ex's step brother, that may be a bit too much. Unless you're really smitten with him and he likes you back, you're probably treading on dangerous territory.
2006-10-27 14:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has informed you to stay far flung from her and you haven't any longer or did no longer, she could desire to get you for stalking her. The poem is gorgeous yet are you able to confirm now that it is not favored from her and he or she is thru no potential fascinated in you? You pronounced, "i do no longer persist along with her everywhere", you do no longer could basically try this to be seen a stalker. Do you call her? e mail her? Are you everywhere close to her like each and all the time? you may gain she needs no longer something to do with you and you mustn't now even supply her the time of day sorry to declare, yet real. i visit enable you comprehend one element and you'll be feeling the comparable way. i do no longer flow close to anybody who would not like me or the place i don't sense welcomed. If she's already informed you "to wander off" or something like that, to any extent further, particular she could desire to flow and get you for stalking. Now that she has this "written poem" in her warm little palms she now has greater proff against you notwithstanding while you're a stalker or no longer. i think of there is largely a tad bit greater on your tale. no person quite calls a individual a stalker basically by way of fact of a love poem. I even have had ex boy buddies force by my abode and that i hate it. they have denied it till I have been given 2 diverse adult males of direction at 2 diverse circumstances. I informed them the two, if I ever observed them in my neighbor hood returned i became going to get them on stalking. (they even have been) i do no longer comprehend approximately you incidents along with her, yet you already comprehend you the two depart her on my own and flow on or in case you do proceed to "worry her" with anymore notes, or something you have achieved and been caught yet, you are able to guess she is now finding for you and so are her buddies....just to flow and now finalize that Stalking Order. in case you have achieved zip, 0, null to her and basically gave her slightly poem then she's being slightly harsh to declare the least, yet what she is maximum easily telling you is to depart her on my own. Sorry, Stalking isn't something to fool around with and you may in simple terms flow on ~
2016-10-16 11:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like you are stalking him it just sounds like you are shy, but where i come from if you date 2 people from the same circle you are called a slut. No offense.
2006-10-27 14:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a huge crush on this guy. thats okay. your not a stalker. but, personally with him being your x's step bro, i'd say move on. it could get kinda jerry springery.
2006-10-27 14:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by hosebroom1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u a stalker?no.
its not like you do it consistantely....and if you think he might like you...just try talking to him more...see if he REALLY does or doesn't...or get your friends to ask or hint at stuff for ya...
haha to the ex-boyfriend's step brother
thast just a little funny
i hope things work out:)
2006-10-27 14:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by lil_flirt_57<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋