I don't want to be humiliated.
2006-10-27 14:40:56 · 18 answers · asked by brandon_ledesma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Babe.. for all you know.. shes thinking the same thing... talk to her
2006-10-27 14:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why u get so nervous...You think u are going to humiliate yourself. So u need to look at it in a whole differnet out look.Look at it like this..If she says no you will survive it...But if u don't ask and she would of said yes and u miss out big time .Like a good time and someone who really cares about u ..Then u have screwed yourself because that could of been your soul mate.Good luck
2006-10-27 21:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine if your shy, I'm shy too. It's difficult to ask a girl to ask out, because everyone is scared of rejection..who isn't? When you see her, just start a conversation. After a little conversation, ask politley if she wants to go out with you. Act like a gentlemeen. If she rejcects, act like you care. Boys tend to say, Ya, I don't care even they do. This sign might show her that your not afraid and maybe she will go up to you another day and ask you out!!! Wouldn't that be great?! LOL
2006-10-27 21:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't be humiliated, just tell yourself she will either say yes or no and it is her option (her loss if she says NO) and go for it, it is better to try than not or you willl always wonder if she would have gone. Don't get sad and all hurt if she says no you may never know why she refuses but it is not alway because of who you are it may be her personal feelings. go for it life is short!!!!!!!!!! Nothing is sadder than a person who is so scared to live!
2006-10-27 21:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. Be calm, take deep breaths. Just go for it. Start by saying 'I have something to ask you' and then you're committed so that you can't cop out. hang in there buddy, rejection is hard, but if she says yes its all the better. However, if she doesn't know you @ all, dont ask her. I hate it when guys who don't know me ask me out b/c that shows they only like me for my face.
2006-10-27 21:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out by asking her if she has an interest in any one special. if she says "you" then that's your opportunity. if she says "no" then that's your opportunity. if she says "some one Else's name" then maybe you should hold off for a while that way you wont get humiliated.you have nothing to loose and her to gain. good luck
2006-10-27 21:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-27 21:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by dricqejide d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, are so totally normal! We all get nervous in this situation.
Go for it, dude! She will respect your nerve!
GL
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2006-10-27 21:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you see her. take a deep breath blow it out and walk up to her and ask. don't be nervous, i'm sure she will say yes
2006-10-27 21:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her first and when the conversation gets going then ask her out
2006-10-27 21:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. Build up that confidence and go for it.
2006-10-27 21:43:36 · answer #11 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋