k, so heres the deal: i really really like this guy (i seriously think im in love!) @ my school, but i am 2 nrvous 2 say hi! when ever he's in like 20 ft of me i blush (really red). he looks at me and i look back but we never say anything 2 each other! its been so long and i don't want to lose him. all my friends (well the 1s tht no) say he likes me. i don't no wht 2 do! can anyone help me get over my nervousness and tips on how to say hi 2 him afer such along while? thnx!
2006-10-27 14:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by potatobuggy11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k, here it is for those of u who r a little confused: i HAVE talked 2 him, in fact i knew him very well! but then we got into the same school, and we had no classes and i just never said hi tht much, wht im asking is: how do i say hi afer almost 1/2 a year! just saying this cause someone named "bee" thinks im nuts cause im in love with someone ive never even talked 2. well i have!
2006-10-27 14:48:13 · update #1
Why not start by looking at him flirtingly, smiling and giving a cute little wave instead of saying "hi" right away? This way he'll know that you notice him and you don't have to worry about the knot in your throat... yet.
Get used to the idea that you *will* have to talk to him eventually if you want something to happen. However, by hinting at him first, maybe you can encourage him to make th efirst move. Or, at least make both of you a little less nervous.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 14:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so let me get this straight you think you're in love with him..and you've never even said hi...YOU'RE NUTS...you can't be in love with someone that you've never talked to Love takes time to build up and grow. You're in lust, your hormones are flowing rapidly because you see someone visually appeasing. Don't even worry about dating when you're in high school...the only reason people state in high school is for the popularity and the reputation, don't even worry about it, get your education first. Boys are always gonna be there and there is always gonna be one that makes your heart flutter, but you're too young right now to worry about that.
2006-10-27 14:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say hi! I know where you are coming from. Its scary! I think I would just smile and say he. If hes in any of your classes you could just smile and be yourself. Who knows maybe hes shy and likes you back!
2006-10-27 14:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just no matter what, say hello. Don't let your nervousness hold you back. Go for it!!!
2006-10-27 14:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it
2006-10-27 14:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋