At a 'girls' evening tonight the subject after drinks came up ofr 'backdoor' sex. of the 7 there, 4 of us were regulars and the others one had tried it once and would never again and the other two were horrified and have never and will never try it. I thought it was expected and the norm am I correct? (We are all under 35)
2006-10-27 14:30:04 · 10 answers · asked by JoyDivision 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, in fact it is expected by the man and the woman expects to have to too. It is prevelant in all of the DVD'S AVAILABLE AND ON TOP OF WHICH IT IS ENJOYABLE TO BOTH PARTIES DONE PROPERLY...AND i speak for over 40 experiences
2006-10-27 22:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Joy what is expected or the norm is totally what you are comfortable with ssexual positions is while varied is as a private a subject that could come up . no one should con you into thinking that its something you have to do regularly or even try if makes you uncomfortable . the man your with shuold understand and appriciate your feelings about it . if he doesnt well maybe you ought to look some more
2006-10-27 21:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i am 30, married, and would never even think of doing the 'backdoor' thing to my wife. i stay away from her backdoor, she stays away from mine. i guess we are a fairly vanilla couple, but i still think that is a line that i will never cross.
2006-10-27 21:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by forjj 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nope. This practice is non-hygienic, extremely unhealthy, and could be considered a perversion. If this is "expected" by the men you date, find other men PRONTO.
2006-10-27 22:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by ragged 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
No, not normal. Can cause serious damage to your rectum. And HE does not have to go thru the pain of healing afterwards.
Guys that do this are not gentlemen.
2006-10-27 21:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
well one benefit is you dont have to worry about getting pregnant, i get it about once a yr though
2006-10-27 21:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-10-27 21:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, right in the pooper!
2006-10-27 21:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
there are girls who don't?
2006-10-27 21:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Homer J 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
all i know is that sh*t hurts. LOL.
2006-10-27 21:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by *sweet sugar* 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋