I have few complaints, I put up with a lot. but i made it clear from the beginning that I hate porn- that it makes me feel like I am not good enough and I see it as a basis for comparison. Am I wrong? he promised he would stop looking and he kept looking. I got extremely upset, we almost broke up, and he promised again. Will he just lie about it forever? Do all guys do this? why? please help me understand why guys can't stop looking at porn when they are getting sexual satisfaction a lot of the time and when I am thoroughly satisfied with just him.
2006-10-27 14:26:09 · 18 answers · asked by Becca R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. because he is horny is not a good enough excuse >80
2006-10-27 14:40:49 · update #1
what's wrong with looking at the menu if you don't order? i don't look at the menu. I don't expect him not to think about it, just not to look at other naked people. that's all.
2006-10-27 14:41:52 · update #2
&,&.&, i don't have to look at porn in order to not cheat. & I'm hot blooded too, OK?
2006-10-27 14:45:20 · update #3
Not all guys do this, though those that don't are few and far between. May everyone else pardon me for saying this, but you deserve better. Besides, if he's lying about it, there's at least dishonesty in addition to what else he has against him, and a relationship should be based on honesty. That's my two cents.
2006-10-27 14:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all men don't look at porn. That is a lie. He is probably a sex addict, and if so, you are in for a lot of lies and pain. Please do some research on sexual addiction. I feel so sorry for you because I know the pain you are about to have. Please remember this when you are feeling your worse cause it is yet to come, you are not in the wrong for the way you feel, this is NOT your fault and you can NOT fix him. He wont stop until he loves you or someone else more than he loves his d ick. Maybe he doesn't know what love truly is.
2006-10-27 14:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by wv_country_princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And the Lord said multiply and replenish the earth.Sex is a God given nature,not to be tampered with.God intended a man and a woman,husband and wife to join together and oboy did He know what He was doing.Trouble is though when you take what is God given and pervert it satan himself takes over.The pleasures that once were beyond ones imagination,now no longer satisfy.Tell your husband if he needs professional help you'll do whatever it takes.But the porn must stop.Please don't fall for the philosophy that it will spice your sex life up,it will for a time and then you will want more,and more until nothing remains real.I will be praying for you folks because I have been there and it's not fun.
2006-10-27 14:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO not all guys do this, well at least I don't. It sounds like he has an addiction to pornography. Yes just like alcohol and drugs and even sex. Some of the questions depends on how long you've been together. Also what kind of porn is he looking at? So many questions you have to ask yourself. Get counseling. Something is not clicking here and your questions are vague. If your satisfied with him, is he with you? Check out the links below. Again seek counseling.
2006-10-27 14:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by D.P. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a genetically need. How come you girls have to paint your face or go shopping or stare in the mirror for hours? As well as all of said upper, we guys have the need to watch porn, even if we are "getting sexual satisfaction a lot of the time". look on the bright side :the porn movies or magazines are a good way to improve your imagination. Don`t tell me you don`t have fantasies.
2006-10-27 14:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Logical-logic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you've gotten your self all tied up with guilt over a organic, typical inclination. our bodies reward us for sexual sex, which guarantees that we are going to do it a lot. it is a approach that has helped our species live to inform the tale over the eons. different species use sturdy instinctual kinds and fertility cycles, we use a excitement comments loop. Masturbation isn't disgusting or immature. men and women human beings can masturbate throughout the time of all stages of existence. it really is a classic, healthful outlet for sexual pressure, and that is fairly good for toddlers to do because it facilitates you study how your body works. that is nice to save your sexual kit in situation by occasional workouts. in case you do not you'll have problem on your wedding ceremony evening once you ask each and every thing to rouse and carry out after having beat it down for thus long. you do not ought to seem at porn. your own mind's eye might want to be even more effective interesting. in case you experience the porn you're searching at is tasteless or crude, seem away and concentrate on your own more effective suitable fantasies.
2016-12-05 07:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does porn really have to be that big of a deal??? At least he's not cheating and can you honestly say that your eye never drifts away, Your outside and you see a hot guy, you turn away? It does relate to what your asking... We all look at others- it's natural and yes he will, let him for gods sake... It's your insecurities and he should not be bothered with that... Join him, he obviously feels comfortable around you to do that in front of you or would of kept it from you the whole time.... indulge his fantasies and i'll tell you that its petty to waste your time on your own insecurities.....
2006-10-27 14:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Virtually all guys like porn. Look, guys are hard wired to want to sleep with everything with two legs. Porn is one way for guys to deal with this without cheating. I know you don't like it but that's the way it is
2006-10-27 14:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband says that its not that iam not beautiful , but men like to see different things.
iam very sexy and beautiful, but mine sneeks peeks, especially when iam in bed without him.lol.
i hate it to, but i think they cant control it!!
iam 100% straight, but a womans body is beautiful, ive even looked at sites with like angelina jolie etc. shes gorgeous!!!
but he says that he doesnt do it because of me, . try to relax.
ive been married for 24 yrs, iam used to many things. but he has never cheated & he is a good provider and friend. when we were first married ,first 3 yrs i started to notice him watching late night porn and found books,(play boy) it hurt so bad.
heck now i even buy him a poster etc sometimes. i choose!!
he puts in his garage.
2006-10-27 14:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by grasshopper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good to look at porn.
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2006-10-27 21:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋