My boyfriend of almost 3 months is very busy. A week and a half ago i asked him if he really wanted to be with me. A day after I asked him that he told me that he was going to take some time and think or reevaluate. The next sunday we finally talked, he told me he had not done much thinking. Tuesday we went to dinner and we kissed. I have talked to him since. I am trying to give him his space, but I just can't imagine that this is going to end well. But I also can't understand why he is taking soo long. If he really doesn't want to be with me then just say it. The biggest problem is that he has soo little time. But I think we could make it work. I just don't know why he's putting me through all this if in the end he's just going to leave me heartbroken. Again, I can't help to think that he just doesn't want to end it. Any help??? Thanks
2006-10-27 13:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your boyfriend is trying to get you to break-up with him, so he wont hae to be the dumper. Usually people like it the other way around but maybe your boyfriend is different anyhow, even if he is busy he needs to find time for you, and your relationship with him, and he obviously isnt doing that, if you have to give him his "space" yeah, space is fine, but not after something has suddenly changed, you know?? anyhow break up w/ him.!
Ashlyn
Good Luck.!
2006-10-27 13:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being inconsiderate of your feelings (something I'm learning as well). Maybe he does want to be with you but doesn't have the time to. At the same time he doesn't want to see you with anybody else. Why don't you tell him what you're looking for in a relationship and if the both of you can't come to an agreement, then go on with your life. There are things more important than having to wait for a guy to be straight up with you.
2006-10-27 13:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Everyone and couple has a problem a trial or tribulation, but you must withstand the storm.If you believe it's love fight for it. Tell him if you haven't already how you feel because you can't fix a heart if your not aware that it's broken.He deserves to no. If he doesn't fix it in do time tell Jack to hit the road.
2006-10-27 13:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by tisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let him leave you in limbo for so long. You need to tell him that he has to decide right now if he wants to make it work or not because who wants to waste their time being with someone who has to think for days on end whether they want to be with you or not.
2006-10-27 13:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not sure of what it is he really wants from the relationship. Tell him how you are feeling about everything.
2006-10-27 13:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't consider that it's killing you to wait for his answer, then he's not worth it. If he really cared, he wouldn't keep you hanging. Good luck.
2006-10-27 13:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by So far away 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋