My bf's friend nick grabbed my butt today and he touched my boob. I was in my history class and he tapped me on the back, i didn't pay attention so then he said "hey beautiful! lookie here" then out of no where he touched my boob, i got up and he grabbed my butt! IDK wat to do! should i tell my bf? HOw should i tell him? Why do guys do that?
2006-10-27 13:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is sexual harassment. He is rude and vulgar and he could go to jail for that, it's called assault.
You do not have to accept that kind of behavior from ANYONE, please! You sound too nice, honey, you should have knocked him out of his pants with a big punch to his face, or started yelling for help while hitting him. (If you defend yourself from being assaulted, no one can do anything to you.) But since you didn't knock him out, here's what you do:
You should tell your father or mother--you sound very young and should not have to deal with this alone. Have them call his parents and have a sit down with the octopus. If you don't know where to start, show them your question and this answer and ask them what they think.
If parents are out of touch or unable (or unwilling) go to the teacher or counselor at school you trust the most or who has a reputation for being a helping soul. Trust me, they have seen it all.
Tell your boyfriend after you have talked to you parents or the teacher, preferably with one of them there. (His friend will try to convince him it was YOU who started it. If you have serious backup, he'll know better. If he doesn't--dump him)
Stay out of this guy's way. He's in trouble and will probably end up in prison or sued one day.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 13:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Happened to me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be straight up and honest and tell your bf. Just hope he doesn't think you egged his friend on. But this friend needs to realise these days this is Sexual Harrassment and i really think you should scare him and tell the principal or even go to the police maybe. Then im sure he wont do it ever again, Well Hopefully. No guy should try sleezing onto you like that, especially your bf's friends he should give you more respect then that. Your bf might get really upset but its not worth keeping it a secret, it will only get worse if nothing is done now!!
2006-10-27 20:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by -=á?¦ §êÃ?Ã¥ ?=- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't really now but i think he's trying to hit on you but i'm not like that i respect a girls personal space and if i was to be your bf i would want to know so tell him and btw thx on answering my question and on the complements and you look cool too but tell your bf or tell someone else becuase thats your personal space and some what stuipid to do in my book so good luck btw your very kind. and you also could kick his a$$ for crap like that. then let ur bf take it from there if you want him to after you tell him but u got power of will
2006-10-27 21:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you why this specific guy did that to you. But my first concern is that he may not respect your boundaries. Nor does it sound like this guy respects his friendship with your boyfriend if he's treating you this way when your boyfriend isn't around. This should worry both of you. If this behavior isn't addressed, it will likely continue to happen again and again.
Also, this behavior constitutes sexual battery...at least in California, and likely in most states...so you could choose to press criminal charges. The touching generally qualifies as sexual battery if it occurs in your bikini areas.
2006-10-27 20:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by curlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell your boyfriend so that he can beat the crap out of his friend for touching you! He absolutely had no right to touch you in that manner! Some guys do that because they are pigs.
2006-10-27 20:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We guys don't do that. It's sexual assault and it's illegal. You should have screamed or yelled and possibly slapped him if people were around to help you. You should threaten or possibly even tell the authorities about this event. You can't let it happen again to you or anyone else.
2006-10-27 20:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by jstokes1085 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should if he was such a friend to your boyfriend he wouldnt do that . that is un called for what the hell is that that you touch your friends gf boobs and @ss tell your boyfriend , that is direspectfull and very nasty
2006-10-27 20:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare he treat you like that..tell him if he does it again you will be telling your boyfriend.
2006-10-27 20:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be independent. It was an assault on you.You don't need someone else to smack his face. You do it;Damn.
2006-10-27 21:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should because that was very disreapectful and rude,and your bf should pur him in his place
2006-10-27 20:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Shakira R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋