I don't have any curtains and neither do they.
about 10 minutes ago, I watched a woman taking off her clothes. And I've got to admit, she's pretty hot. But If they see me sitting here they'll think I'm some kind of pervert, should I move my computer desk away from the window? or should I tell her somehow that she's clearly visible from my house?
2006-10-27 13:14:17 · 26 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
get a curtain orknow for certain your going to be in trouble whatever you do and see if you can find a better place for your computer-get a princess-who loves Jesus most and live it -david in Jesus amazing grace-anyone can get disgrace-dont go there - :D
2006-10-27 13:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
She can't see you if it's dark in your room. Or she might not care. I would, to be neighborly, tell her that she's forgetting to close her curtains when she changes, and if she were your sister, or girlfriend, you would want her to know. That way she doesn't think you are peeping. I had this happen to me. I also had a peeper once. Both are very uncomfortable, and had I not been so tired coming home from work, I would have thought to close the blinds first. The first time, I was in my early 20s, and all the single old dudes in my neighborhood would walk their dogs over to my house and hang in front when I got home from work. Well, one of the dudes felt guilty and told me that every night I was giving a free show to old perves and that I should get some heavy curtains. Maybe that will be your approach. I didn't get mad at him, I was grateful. Bring some chocolat with you, it can't hurt. :)
2006-10-27 13:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by gardengirl 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
All you need to do , is purchase a blind or shade. Then tell her, she needs to hang up a shade or a curtain. If your married, you are not suppose to continue doing that . So quit window peeking. What is wrong with you people who do not value your privacy ?? Good grief , what if a real weirdo looked in at your woman. You need to be protected from Window peekers. Hang up a shade , blind or a curtain.
2006-10-27 13:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetie, as a woman, I'm telling you.....she knows you're there and likes/wants to tease you. But be real careful, she could cite you as being a pervert and get you into trouble. Like the saying goes: the only difference between sexual harassment at work and flirting depends on a womans mood. Watch yourself.
2006-10-27 15:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might want to mention that you have a clear view of her bedroom from your window. Once she knows that it is up to her to fix the problem. Whether she puts up a curtain or not, you should be a gentleman and keep your eyes on your computer screen. If you cannot do that where your computer is now, then move it.
2006-10-27 13:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would say make them aware that you can see into their bedroom, and then it's up to them if they get curtains. Try to tell them quietly, in case they get embarrassed, and don't recount in graphic detail what you saw. I would move the computer desk to make it less of a temptation.
2006-10-27 21:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by arcanehex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be a gentleman about it, I would move the computer. Or you could simply march over there and say "Hey! Put up some curtains, will ya?!" lol
2006-10-27 13:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Shayna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is getting dressed in front of an open window she is probably not too concerned w/ people seeing her. if you can't help yourself from watching her, get a curtain on your window, or if you want to keep watching her then keep on! just make sure she don't see you
2006-10-27 13:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by DALLAS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... depends.
Is the woman married? Maybe she doesn't care. Or maybe she knows you're watching. ;D
But if she doesn't know, how about you tell her? It will make you seem a little strange, but it will be better for you in the long run.
Especially is she is married. Or if you can't confront her, I'd move the computer. To avoid bad situations.
2006-10-27 13:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Patty_08 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just go over to their house (not when they're changing:) and talk to them good-naturedly. Just let them know that you can see in their window...
An easier remedy would be to get curtains for your window, but still tell your neighbor, so you're not tempted to keep watching.
2006-10-27 13:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for a more subtle non-verbal communication with her. Just hang an inflatable penis from your bedroom window, and each time she takes her clothes off - DEFLATE IT!
2006-10-27 14:17:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋