Now I Shall Tell You A Tale...
This girl and i were talking a lot in the beginning of the year. We went out on a few dates but nothing happened because my best friend was in love with her.
Then because of my friend I felt like I had to choose so I choose my friend and this girl and i stopped talking. We were mad at each other and there was silence for 3 months, the whole summer. Then we bumped into each other and started conversing again. We hung out about 2 times...this was about a month ago...but then my friend was upset again and this time this girl and i got in a big argument about whether her and i should even talk on the phone or not. The argument lasted 13 seconds on the phone. We havent spoken since...
Back when her and i werent speaking to each other during that 3 month period my birthday occured and she was still nice enough to say happy birthday... so i figured i would do the same since it was her bday 2 days ago. I sent her an email and to my complete surprise she
2006-10-27 13:06:43 · 12 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
happen again with this time no lame arguments we've had in the past since those were petty. I dont know if i should call her, text her, respond to the email...etc.
I checked my horoscope (and im not big of horoscopes) and it said to "not push my relationships past their natural dynamic right now"
an interesting horoscopre during this situation.
I'm not sure if i should somehow contact her but yet not seem like i want this whole thing between her and i to evolve again...and even so....how?
2006-10-27 13:07:02 · update #1
If your friend isn't interested in this girl go for it. But like ask your friends is it cool. But start of as friend and progress from there.
2006-10-27 13:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Shearson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound interested in her but hesitant. Don't count her out just because you had a squabble. Couples disagree all the time. She seems mature because she realizes this. Now you should send her a "sorry I forgot your bday card" then send a card that says "sorry about the last card since I did remember your birthday." Have some fun with her! Best of luck to you!!
2006-10-27 13:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I say that your best friend sounds like he has a problem. You stated that he was in love with her but you never mentioned that she had any feelings for him. Besides are you try to be her friend or are you try to make her girl? You shouldn't limit yourself especially if the girl isn't interested in him. Do you enjoy yourself when you are with her? She obviously wants to talk to you since she replied to your email. I do understand your dilemma however because I lost one of my best friends in the world because he choose a girl over me. She was jealous of our relationship and insecure because she is young and doesn't understand that men and women can be friends without anything going on. We have been friends have been friends for over 20 years. It can be hard making the right decision but if she isn't interested in him then you aren't doing anything wrong.
2006-10-27 14:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should call her i mean life is to short and little things are not worth a friend ship , what if something happened to her you will feel so bad and regret not talking to her get on the phone and say hi i just wanted to call and say hi because i miss our friendship so much life is to short and if something happened to you i would lose a very special friend , and sometimes somebody has to be the bigger person , a text are email is so impersonal but a phone call means so much more . good luck get back with your friend you will not regret it
2006-10-27 13:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to talk to her and become freinds with her. Also who liked this girl first? you or your friend? I think from what you told me it was you, I am not to sure but if so. Ask your friend if he can stop the attitude and ask him why the hec he has so much drama about this girl? I would try to talk to her, and if your friend has problem with you even talking to her or hanging out with her he needs to stop. This is your choice, I am just telling what I would do. Your friend seriously needs to stop the attitiude. I would just go for the girl, your friend, if he is true, will realize you really liked the girl and he was a little to dramatic.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-27 13:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should try to talk to her and what is bothering her. Also if u like her then don't stop liking her for your friend. My story is that i had a bf and he didn't talk much, but then I had this conversation with him and he was all happy. So give it a try! I looked at my horoscope and it said talk to your bf and he will be angry so dont! I didn't believe that and it worked.
2006-10-27 13:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Questionable23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you start things up again, you other friend is just going to get upset again and make you choose.
2006-10-27 13:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she responded then she wants you to keep talking to her. Your friend sounds like he's being quite unreasonable in not wanting you to talk to her unless he has a reason not to trust you. But she definately still wants to talk to, and be friends with, you.
2006-10-27 13:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by vtpoetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, are both of you 12 years old? It sounds like it. If you are any older than that, then you need to start acting like it...sheesh!
2006-10-27 13:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her your sorry and apologize a lot and beg for her accepting of your of your apologies and look into her eyes b/c eye contact means truth and make the apologies good ones
2006-10-27 13:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋