I have a girlfriend and this other girl in my youth group likes me. how can i tell her without hurting her feelings? by the way, she told she likes me so i know.
2006-10-27 13:00:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her that simple deal with the consequences later
2006-10-27 13:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say let me talk to you for a minute. Here's the deal I know you like me and I'm good with all that but I have a girlfriend and I really feeling her at this point and time but if you want to still be friends that will be OK and if you don't that will be fine too. I'm just letting you know this because I don't want to be leading you on and then hurt you r feeling so FRIENDS and give her a hug. If she takes the offer then she really likes you and if she doesn't she didn't like she just wanted you because you had a girlfriend.
2006-10-27 20:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the sunsets again, ask the other girl in your youth group if you can speak with her out of earshot of others. Be kind but firm and tell her that you're flattered that she likes you, but that you are definitely (in no uncertain terms)a couple with your girlfriend and that you don't/won't betray her trust. Let her know it's not because she's unattractive, but she's just not for you. Don't let her dangle thinking otherwise--that's the cruelest thing you could do.
2006-10-27 20:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Moe J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the other girl then who cares if you hurt her feelings because for one you get what you want and two she will be hurt no matter what you do
2006-10-27 20:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her. Just say, I have a girlfriend I am sorry. or make it in your own words, just in a nice way.
2006-10-27 20:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋