theres this cute girl in my school who i really like n i started to talk to her a lot about a mth ago n she always smiled n replyed to me. once, i told her i thought she was really cute n she was happy n told her friends. i went to most of her vball games n she n her friends noticed that i was there. she broke up wit her bf during summer n is single. i askd her one day if she wanted to go chill 1 weekend n she said sure, but then later she sent me a text sayin she would like to go but we should just be friends. i was upset n didnt tlk to her for a week. now i dont no if she notices caus her friends do i think n sometimes she looks at me in the hallway n tries to flirt n is still happy when i go to her games, but i dont no how to react. she is acting like she is confused n dont no wat she wants. how can i tell if she is interested now n wat do i do? should i flirt with her even though she said she wants to be friends but is flirtin now??? how would u guys react. i still like her.......
2006-10-27 12:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm facing a problem similar to this, except i didn't really make many moves on the guy i like ;D
i suggest, you just accept being just friends with her, until eventually, she developes feeling for you, and as for that "flirting" she's probably into you, cause i fell for one of my guy friends......i think she's falling for you too ;D
good luck, i hope this helped you somewhat
2006-10-27 12:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kotenno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is giving you mixed signals. It could be that she is shy or likes to take things slow and be friends first. Or it might be that she enjoys the attention and flirting, but she's not really interested in you. Why don't you spend another weekend or two chilling with her and see how it goes? Get to know her a little better and she if she lets you get closer to her. Find out what kind of person she is. Does she just like to flirt in general?
2006-10-27 12:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, im the guy you said had a similar problem to mine... looks like this is it.
well, in yur situation man i'd say go for it. it sounds like she liked you at some point, and may still like you. regardless... a quote i try to live by that might help you out.
"100% of the shots you don't take miss." ~Wayne Gretzky
basically you will never find out unless you ask... rejection might hurt at first, but the agony of regretting not asking her later will be worse. plus youve got a chance, they were made to be taken.
in conclusion bro- best of luck to you and me... i hope you get her! its weird how two random people can relate with each other. l8r
2006-10-27 14:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by sakic_cikas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls don't know what they want....Honey, u need to make the first move. LEt it all out. Be confident and tell her how you feel. She's never going to pay attention to you until you tell her. Babe, u have to tell her. Girls dig confidence. TRy talking to her. Tell her you like her. Here's what most guys would do if they liked a girl..or even love...:
Talk to her! Chose her over all the other girls you hang out with, tell her she's beautiful or pretty [not hot or sexy, BIG MISTAKE, 99.9% of girls would rather be called that than hot or sexy], Play with her hair [REALLY THIS WORKS! GIRLS LOVE IT! I DO when MY BF DOES IT], Give her piggyback rides, listen to her.
If you don't want to make it obvious or too quick to get w/ her. Just give her signals like saying "that [shirt] looks nice on you" or "your hair looks nice like that" you know things that guys don't really compliment girls on! HOpe this helps
2006-10-27 13:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if she is happy tht u go to her games then u should be friends for a while n when u get closer then u sould ask her. She prob. said she wanted to be just friends cause she didnt want a relationship so fast
2006-10-27 12:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by danchigueri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you, but would like to know you better before she commits. Seems fair... be friends, see where it goes, give it time, the best things in life take time to develop.
2006-10-27 13:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to her, without her friends nearby, and in person, if possible...i flirt with guys all the time..doesnt mean i want them...i like the way they look and they like the way i look, so i flirt....doesnt mean she wants you as her BF....email me at flautist92@yahoo.com if u have more questions...
~Kate
2006-10-27 12:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kate M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would focus on my math/algebra and try to get to MIT/HARVARD or one of the prestigeous schools.
2006-10-27 12:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boi tell her how u feel
2006-10-27 12:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Briana H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋