Is it true that when a guy is interested in you, he'll agree with almost anything you say because he wants to impress you?
2006-10-27 12:48:29 · 16 answers · asked by Wondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He can like you and still disagree.
2006-10-27 12:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience when I have been interested in a girl I would pretty much go along with what ever the girl was saying for the most part. It also depends on what type of girl they are looking for.
"Take Care"
2006-10-27 13:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. he'll agree with almost anything you say because he wants to sleep with you.
2006-10-27 12:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by haj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i was just saying that. Who didnt see that coming. But seriously, sometimes because the guy is interested and he doesnt want to ruin the conversation. If he disagrees with almost everything she says, she probably wont like talking to him anymore. Girls are always talking about themselves anyways, so whats up with dat?huh huh
2006-10-27 12:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning perhaps a guy will to a degree, but don't you kind of do the same thing at the start of a relationship, or when you first meet somebody and want them to like you? This is not something related to just one sex. Now, if he does it a long time then he is not much of a man. If a woman does it for very long she is not much of a woman either.
A person who needs to agree with the person they are talking with either has no backbone, has no opinion of his/her own, is stupid, or just lacks an ability to speak up. Which brings us back to not having any backbone.
I am a big one on honesty as long as it is not used as a tool to hurt others. Many people say they are only being honest when they jab claws into others backs. It is the same as those who use "humor" to be mean too. They tell a "joke" and laugh it up, but it was meant to hurt and it usually does. Then when they get called on it they say "I was just kidding!". No, a joke is only a joke when everyone is laughing, not when one party is the butt of the joke and everyone is laughing but the one who is hurt. I can take a joke as well as the next, but I also know when somebody is NOT joking and means exactly what they say, they just don't have the balls to admitt they meant it. That is cowardly.
It is also immature at the least and cowardly at the worst to not mean what you say, to agree with the person you are with and then agree completely differently when with somebody with a differeing opinion. Then those two get together and each says, he said this to me, no he said this to me, and then when the perso is actually confronted (usually never by them both together) he insists he (or she) never said that to the other person.
That is cowardly at the worst and immature or lacking in self assurance in the least. I am afraid more people than I would like to admitt does this type of behavior. My best advice is to avoid those who behave in this manner. We each have the right to expect people we are in any form of a relationship with to be at least more honest than not with us. I understand that most people tell whilte lies, but this is beyond white lies, it is down right harmfull and destructive to any relationship. So, avoid those who just can't seem to be straight with you. There are many who are capable of being mature adults and if we all take the time to find them we will.
But, yeah, guys do this to a degree. Sorry about that, but they do. Then again, women do too. What can I say other than we all need to pick and chose who we hang out with, and we each decide how we will be treated by how we allow ourselves to be treated. I am not saying you are allowing yourself to be treated poorly. I am just making a comment in general.
Good luck and have a nice evening.
Nice Guy is not only nice but mature and smart. Any mature adult will agree at times to get along. However, in a serious relationship it is best if you find out how well you agree on serious issues. While it is true you don't want somebody exactly like you, you also do not want somebody the opposite of you and all you believe in, or the relationship will not only be very rockly it will be very short lived. Having a relationship with the exact opposte may work out in a blue moon, but it is not for a very peacefull life. I perfer to have a man who thinks about issues much like I do, who shares my belief system. He does not have to agree with everything, just enough for us to have a peacefull coexistance. I am in the time of life when the sparks which use to seem exciting just are not so exciting any more. Now, they just seem like way too much work and discomfort for me to bother with. LOL
2006-10-27 13:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the guy. I think it's better to be honest. Disagreements are natural, surely you don't want a person who is exactly like you.
2006-10-27 12:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey men agree with you not because they are interested in you. There interested in your pants or what's in them
2006-10-27 12:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by dominator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I try to avoid that, so that the person knows who I really am instead of what I think they want me to be. But yeah, think that most guys do that.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-10-27 12:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That can be the case sometimes, but guys often disagree with you so that they can argue with you.
2006-10-27 12:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by nascarxcore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only with certain guys other guts just ignore u all together
we cant live with them cant live without them!
2006-10-28 10:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋