my bf is an *** lately, gets upset about nothing, and makes me feel bad. i just wanted to make him happy, . i still feel alot for him, so when he does this it hurts and i cry. and he says 'why do you always cry to me' but i'm not crying to him. i'm crying because of him. he gets pissy, jealous and angry and over nothing, sometimes for days, and he blames me. generally he does this because i'm not there. but we have a major problem now. he wants me to go to america to move with him, but i want everything to be sweet like 'baby i cant wait to be with you. i love you so much. it's gonna be wonderful' before i go. so there is something to go for. but he says it's not gonna be like that till i get there. how could i ever go without the love and tenderness being there between us.
2006-10-27 12:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That guy is a jerk dump his sorry butt.
2006-10-27 12:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by NOIZE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think that you should go. If he neglects you now, how will he care for you any more there? Where you are should not determine if you love someone or not. But ultimately, the choice is up to you.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-10-27 12:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful because he sounds a bit controlling to me and controlling men usually turn out to be abusive.
2006-10-27 12:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's prolly sad about moving but it seems like hes taking his anger out on you and that's considered abusive
2006-10-27 12:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont go, dump him. if he's treating you like this now, it WILL lead to physical abuse. I guarentee it. dont take that chance
2006-10-27 12:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by kylie b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋