I have a couple guys that I like right now. I do not know who to pick! I'm not one to mess with anyone's mind, so I want to pick someone before they all get hurt. The first one is someone I went to high school with, he is very nice and we have been intimate together, but I don't know if he wants a relationship. The other guy is my next door neighbor. He just moved in and we have hung out a couple of times, he seems very nice and I like him a lot. I don't know who to pick! HELP!
2006-10-27 12:32:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Know if you pick the neighbor, you will see him everyday after you guys break up. He may be nice, more so because hes new in town, we tend to like the unknown. You have history with this other guy. He doesn't want a relationship but he wants a**. Just hang out with both of them, don't make a decision until it comes down to it. By then you will most likely know who the winner will be. Let them both take you out. Friday night, Saturday night, rest Sunday. LOL
2006-10-27 12:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Keymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is anyone supposed to answer that question with just the info you gave? a guy that went to high school w/ you or a guy that lives next door?? We know nothing about either one except that one might not want a relationship, but he's nice. It's simple....pick the one you like better!
2006-10-27 19:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by DALLAS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yoself some room. If youre not sure who to pick, then dont rush! I dont think picking some one that quick is a good idea because eventually you will not only hurt that guy, but you also hurt yoself.
HOw about this? THink of if u pick one, then would you still be OK with the other one or you want the 2nd guy more? Do the reverse. I think the one you feel more loss is probably the one you "feel" more at.
BTY, why dont directly ask the long-term friend to see if hes interested in you rather than guessing?
2006-10-27 19:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next door
you can have a clean start with this one
you haven't done anything with him so it will be much better to start over and get to know him well
plus he is easy access
as i always say if you did not have a relationship when you were in school with a pass lover, it has to be a good reason
don't go backwards go forwards
2006-10-27 20:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u really know your neighbor that much? Pick the first one. You seem to know him better.
2006-10-27 19:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by hypergal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should pick the next door one because he will work out bettter in the long run
2006-10-27 19:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of question is this?
Do you often ask people who to date/who to sleep with or what they want you to eat for dinner.
I think you have brains why don't you use them. Take your time to evaluate both guys, may be neither of them are worth your type.
Are you going to ask next time what time to go to bed to?????
S T U P I
2006-10-27 19:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one that has the most money or the most financial background or chances of success...
2006-10-27 19:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well pick the one next door since it sounds like you like him more than the HS one.
2006-10-27 19:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by killerlegend2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2
2006-10-27 19:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋