k my bf was lovely in the beginning. really funny, caring and considerate. and i always used to do things for other people, and he tried to get me to come out of myself and do things for myself. but he wanted me to need him, and slowly i opened up to him like that. now, he alternates between putting me down, saying things like he can see there's a nice person inside me deep down. i dont understand, everyone always says i'm too nice. so i dont get that, he sees me as a *****?? and saying that i do things wrong for us, because i didn't tell him what was up one time, I stopped us sharing anymore. he says all these problems are because i'm far away at the moment and i should move with him. but i want us to be ok before i move to another country for him. he says they will never be ok until i'm there. but the more he is like that the less i see it being nice when i do go. i tell him i just want everything to be sweet.
2006-10-27 12:29:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is taking advantage of your kind nature...keep away from him he is bad news.
2006-10-27 12:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really look at the whole picture before I picked up and went to another country with this guy, there are plenty of people closer to home that surely are better than him!!!!!!!!!! Don't cut yourself short, anytime you have to make that much of a change to be "good enough" for the other person there is more wrong that with you believe me!!!!!!!! I hope you bail on this one.
2006-10-27 12:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the first 3 sentences and without reading anymore my advice to you....
LEAVE HIM!!!
2006-10-27 12:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋