My brother and I, have fights most of the time, not fist fights, but word fights, that we end up not talking too each other for a while, I treat him bad sometimes, uncontrollably, I have to say it's just my life that's doing this to me...just too much stress, and the fights between my parents...my point is, how do I show him I love him so much, should I buy something for him, should I give him something he loves of mine....what do u think? Im 14 by the way, and he's 11.
2006-10-27 12:29:13 · 6 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do the best that you can not to fight with him. If it looks like you are trying to provoke a fight, he will not want to talk to you. Tell him you love him EVERY CHANCE you get. This can change someone's life, just saying those two words, "I love you."
above all try and respect him. Saying I love you won't just work, you need to ALSO respect him.
2006-10-27 12:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a son and a daughter now she is 17 and he is 13 they too fought alot, and at times still do. but this is what i tell them both, and this is something i will tell you. think about how you treat him, and now think about what if he was gone tomorrow { god forbid} the things that you do to him now can never be taken back, the things you should have said to him will never be said. that's something you need to think about. also buying him something or giving him something that he likes of yours is not the answer. you need to spend time with him do things with him. be nice to him. these are memories that will last forever. that will bring a smile to your face, things that when you are older the two of you will talk about.and laugh about. so the next time you feel that you are going to say something that you know that you shouldn't, think about what i said.
2006-10-27 14:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend time with him doing something you both enjoy and explain to him what you have said here (that the reason you treat him bad is just due to stress and that you love him)
2006-10-27 14:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to get in to fights with your brother but u guys still have to talk u do not have to give him anything just tell him how u feel about him im sure he feels the same way u do besides your his older brother u have to look out for him
2006-10-27 12:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend an afternoon with him, take him to do something he really wants to do- whether its seeing a certain movie, going to the zoo, or camping out overnight. Do something special just for him.
2006-10-27 12:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by vtpoetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him something expensive
2006-10-27 12:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋