My mom got married a couple of months ago and I LOVE MY STEPDAD...... well in the beginning me and my step sis were like bestfriends.... but her mom hates my mom and wont let her come around me...and my stepdad does nothing about it..... I want to have a relationship with my stepsister because her mom hates us she hates us...shes a 5 months younger then me... and is going threw the same problems I went threw.... what do i do
2006-10-27 12:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by ballerinagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
SHE DOES NOT LIVE WITH ME...
2006-10-27 12:14:18 · update #1
Her mother has no concern with this relationship. This is between your mother, your stepdad, and the two of you stepsisters. You should go ahead and hang around your stepsister because it's very good to have a loving relationship between you two. Her mother is going to do what she can to be around her daughter, but the primary relationship is your mother and stepdad and that's the relationship that encompasses you two. I think you really should make the effort to have a relationship with her.
2006-10-27 12:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by ravensfan172003 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to your stepdad and tell him how u feel and have your stepdad, u and your stepsister have a get together and openly discuss the problem, im sure after that things would be better between u and her, her stepdad has to be involed in this
2006-10-27 12:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by OU812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like others have said, talk to your stepdad. Maybe he can coordinate some time for you guys to hang out. I agree that it would be benficial for the two of you to be friends - you're absolutely going throguh the same stuff at the same age.
2006-10-27 13:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by raquel122203 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms provide her time. She is projecting her mom's indignant emotions on your stepdad onto you & your mom. the priority is theirs not yours so do not berate your self. She in all likelihood sounds like she is betraying her mom by technique of being on pleasant words with you. She may also harbor some jealousy because her father resides with you and not in any respect her and her mom. There are some deep psychological subject matters at play the following. in basic terms be form and affected human being and probably in time she will be able to come back round.
2016-12-05 07:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by tedesco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a sit down with your step dad. Explain to him that he should try and explain to his daughter whats going on. That your mom is not gonna replace hers. This has to really come from dad. Next try and have a 1 on 1 on why she all of a sudden feels this way. take it from there. Let her know that your not trying to take her dad but share him. There plenty of love to go around.
2006-10-27 12:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Keymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out.
2006-10-27 12:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋