i'm so tired of the losers! it seems that in my area, i cannot find one guy that has good morals or goals or that is willing to settle down. i can't get out on my own for financial reasons, and it's hard to go out with 2 kids. any suggestions? be serious.
2006-10-27 11:58:29 · 22 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be more open to different kinds of people. Maybe their is someone who's a bit younger or older than you, or not quite as good looking, or who has different (strongly) beliefs than you. He could be a real sweatheart- give him a chance. Another thing you could try are the internet match-making websites. I've never tried one, but supposedly they work.
2006-10-27 12:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by vtpoetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you, seems like all the nice ones either live to far away or they are hiding. I'm going though the same dam thing. The ones that don't want to settle down, there is a reason for that, it should tell you some thing right away. (red flag) I do believe that Mr. Right will come along, it does take sometime, as I know, but think in the long run it will be dam worth it. Good Luck my friend, have lots of patients
2006-10-27 19:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by cat422006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is the same way as any guy trying to find a nice lady.
Trying to find a soulmate is not like going to walmart and look for the best product. (you might have to find a better store :D ) Sometimes the right guy is just around the corner, sometimes can be somewhere across the country.
It also depends on your "standards" of good morals and willingness to settle down. I would say just take it easy and keep on going. Maybe a good friend can help you hook up with somebody.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 19:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Whatta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy u had kids with may be a start. For the most part, a good man will fnd you, not vice versa. Girls that pursuit guys never last. When he chases u, you will know. I mean not to be a dyk, but what do you have to offer. What makes you such a good woman?? Morals and goals are just a pices of the american pie. The guys who do have there prioroties together are not focused on emotions and relationships. They are focused on those Goals and Priorities.
2006-10-27 19:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by aukasted1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same types of issues. You don't say how old you are, or the guys you date. They are not worth a damn before 30-35 or so. But don't go too much older, ya know. (your age, x2, subtract 14 for your age limit)
The funny thing is, as soon as I quit looking, an old friend and I got together, got engaged, and eventually married. That was more than 5 yrs ago.
2006-10-27 19:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me a few years ago. It takes you getting your head in a good place. Being able to stand on your two feet is very important. Don't look for a guy right now. Look for yourself. A little self-reflecting never hurts. I realized a lot of who I am and why I was attracting the same ol trash.
there are plenty of GREAT guys out there. You just have to be receptive to finding them.
2006-10-27 19:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by too_damned_kute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, there are a lot of good men out there. But sometimes, we as females, put some many limitations and high expectations on a man, that it leads us to all of the wrong one. And then we complain about it... If we would just go out into the world a little more open minded, we would be sooooo surprised at what we have missed out on..
2006-10-27 19:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by mizz_toree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am downright ugly, but I think I am a nice guy. I work two jobs, but still live at home and don't make enough to live on my own. Am I the right guy? No. Because all women want are hot-looking stud-muffin hotties with a lot of money.
2006-10-27 19:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by NJboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the questions is why are you looking in the wrong places?
there are good guys aout there and by the way you posed the question i think you know that. it's just a mtter of being patient. the children will be a bit of a hinderance but it can still work, i've seen things just like this work out fine. try different places and it also may help.
2006-10-27 19:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by adman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the good guys are either married or gay right??????????? No of course not there are good guys out there usually it comes in the unmost times that you were expecting to happen and in the most unusual places be patient and it will come.
2006-10-27 19:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by turnertot1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋