I have never been bothered by porn movies, i would actually be the one in the relationship to go rent one or buy them, never got jealous, none of that stuff with my other boyfriends. But last night my boyfriend of 7 months, brought home a porn movie...well when he brought it out I got a horrible knot in my stomach and I wanted to stangle him, i got very upset, i tried not too show him my feelings but he knew what was wrong and was very sorry, but i had told him before i would be okay with watching porn with him, i just dont know why i acted like a brat, its bugging me tons and i dont know what too do?, why would i be so jealous with this boyfriend about porn videos?
2006-10-27 11:56:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These things happen..maybe you didnt like the look of the women in the video.
2006-10-27 12:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In reading your question you stated you were the one to go out and get the porn movies... but this time when you acted like a brat he brought it home... I think it is because it made you feel slightly insecure because he brought the movie home not you....
2006-10-27 19:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... the last thing we want is our man getting off to another woman. The fact is youre in love girl and thats what love does to us women. It makes us have feeling towards are men like we have never felt before. Even over the littlest thing like porn. Think about it. All of the other bfs probably didnt mean as much to you as this one does and they probably didnt do much for you in the sak as well, so of course you wanted that extra spice. But in this relationship everything is perfect and when he brought that home it triggered your jealous alarm which is normal when youre in love. You will get over it and realize that he loves you and wouldnt dare get off to any other woman but you... haha!
2006-10-27 19:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know I dont watch porn and I dont want to watch one with the man I love. I think it is very disrespectful. You two can do the same thing they do in a porn and your actually getting the real deal. Why watch people who have no respect for themselves and there bodies.
2006-10-27 19:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you obviously care about this guy and his feelings towards you and women. Watching porn... shows a lack of respect of both genders. You do not want your boyfriend seeing you in that way as porn portrays, you value his opinion of you and you obviously take your relationship seriously.
Yeah, you guys don't need porn to enhance anything... you got it all with the respect and consideration you both show eachother...
2006-10-27 19:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be you have deeper feelings for this boyfriend than you have with the other ones. You need to talk to him and let him know how you feel about it. Maybe you can pick one out for the both of you to watch and you would feel better about it.
Good luck and always remember the key to a successful relationship with anyone is communication!!!
2006-10-27 19:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The movie is not the issue. You may be upset about something else and that just triggered your response. Let him know you over reacted and try to figure out what is really upsetting you.
2006-10-27 19:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be because he went to get it instead of you?
It sounds like in all your other relationships, you're the one who procured the porn. This time though, he brought it home instead. Maybe it upset you because you didn't initiate it?
2006-10-27 19:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feelings of insecurity. Are you putting on weight? Not doing everything he wants...watch with him O to completion, do A light BDSM and some outdoor stuff and stop being a silly little girl
2006-10-27 18:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww...one of the signs of love. you don't want to share. and porn is sharing an intimate relationship such as sex with another human being (regardless if it is just an image of a human being). i used to have no problem with porn until i feel in love with my husband. now i find porn annoying and interferring in our sex life.
2006-10-27 19:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋