ok i have talked to myparents about gay people and the way they talk about not likeing gay people i am kinda scared to tell them that i am bi how can i tell them??
2006-10-27 11:49:38 · 27 answers · asked by Eeyore398 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Coming from a gay point of view, just tell them and let them know with out creating tension, if they really love you, which they should because they are your parents, they will accept you for what ever you are, and will support you in what you do, even if they don't really like it. Thats what my parents did when i told them that i liked guy, they said they loved me and wouldn't treat me any different, but that they didn't accept it, and i guess i can live with that
2006-10-27 12:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jacob 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should see a counselor and not act of your sexual whims.
Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you SHOULD do something. Homosexuality is evil in all its forms. The world accepting it does not change that.
Lemme ask a question to everyone who hates me right now because of what I said: We fight to cure all forms of genetic diseases. Why isn't being born homosexual considered a disease? Why do we allow people to be forced to live life abnormally? We fight autism, diabetes, MS, and every other abnormality, why not homosexuality? Do you really think being homosexual is a GOOD thing? If so, ask yourself the following question:
If everyone in the world was homosexual, what would become of the human race?
2006-10-27 12:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about this though: you might not actually like girls. It could be a phase, it could be an imbalance, it could go away. I'd strongly suggest giving a straight lifestyle an honest chance (honest=past college) before committing to the gay lifestyle.
2006-10-27 12:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by WJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're bi? I wouldn't rock the boat until I was sure of my own sexuality. If you are sure, just tell them. There really is no way to avoid there attitude towards the subject. If they're going to flip out, they're going to. You should have to hide who you are. It sounds awful as they're your parents, but you don't need people in your life who don't like you for who your are. Hopefully, they come around and feel no different about you than they do now.
2006-10-27 11:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you really dont have to.. How old are you? If your grown then tell them and move on but if you are still young and living with them, then thats different. Im Bi too, but I havent told my parents and I probably wont, only because i have no interest on getting married to a female. But If you plan on persuing this, then tell them.. oh yeah call me wink wink
2006-10-27 11:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by mizz_toree 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have a lot of bi friends.. trust me, they are a lot nicer. if ur parents don't understand u then so be it.. ur gay and that's just how it is..either they will learn to deal with it, or they won't have a good relation ship with u.. but seriously how old r u? email me b/c im kinda curious to know how old u r
2006-10-27 13:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are afraid of people and things that they don't understand. Explain your feelings to them and try to help them understand that you are still a normal human being and you eat just like them, sleep like them and that you are not strange. If your parents truly love you they will except you for who you are.
2006-10-27 13:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out which one, guys or girls, and when you are sure then you can make a mature decision and tell them unless you want them to just figure it out in due time. Don't tell them that you're bi.
Please don't sound all confused. That is why you can wait until things just work their way out naturally.
2006-10-27 11:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's easier to talk to one of them....then talk to that parent.
If you still find it hard.....write a letter....leave the room when they read it....then come back after an hour.
Just realize they will not be congratulating you....they're going to have to go through some changes but at the end of the day...they love you.
2006-10-27 11:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah really how old are you? dont tell them anything yet. wait til you go to college and decide from acutally trying things out...you might jsut be in a phase. Hollywood makes being a lesbian look pretty appealing, but it may not be your thing after all.
2006-10-27 11:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋