you realize their character turns you off completely - they may be gorgeous on the outside but on the inside they're just not your type and you totally dislike how they think, how they behave (esp. if they appear arrogant or want to be superior to everyone, etc...)
have you had any similar experience
2006-10-27 11:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, not yet....
but i had an experience being attracted to a good mannerd man but turnd out to be a total loser, cheater n egoistic, drunkard...(sigh)
2006-10-27 11:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the things men do when they are young is think all beautiful women are going to fulfill their desires better than just the common looking woman. Something that Angelina Joli had said about her was "that sleeping with her was like sleeping with a couch". She is beautiful and no one would ever imagine that she would not be a PERFECT partner, but someone that was previously married to her said this and that seems like it could not be true. The same may be true for Tom Cruise and Bradd Pitt and Courtney Cox. Can't judge a person by the way they look only.
People can be beautiful both inside and out and sometimes the most beautiful outside is the least desireable when you get to know them.
I am a common looking woman and I have not experienced this myself but have heard many friends with stories that are painful.
2006-10-27 19:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by justclicktherubyslippers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,actually I have. Just recently I fell for my neighbor. He is hot, and I was SOOOOO attracted to him I couldn't stand it. At one point he even answered the door in a towel and I could barely stop myself from opening the door and grabbing the towel. We hung out all summer as friends but my secretly wishing it were more, and the more I hung out with him the more I am glad that nothing happened. Truly I am. He is a great guy to hang with when you want to go boating or playing baseball with his kid and my boys, but other than that there is really nothing we have in common. He's not a bad guy really, he just doesn't respect other peoples religious convictions and that bothers me.
He wanted me to give up my religion for him, and the funny thing is that I almost did. It wouldn't have worked out anyway, so the lesson here is never change who you are. If he wants to have a relationship with me he can accept all of me or none at all.
2006-10-27 18:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been one to look for people with looks, but I have made the same observation. We are so shallow, and we just can't help it. I met my husband online 10 years ago and we got to know each other for 10 months without ever meeting. He got to know the real me and I wasn't disappointed one bit.
In a world that expects you to fit in, sometimes you have to stand out...I am always attracted to the people who are brave enough to stand out because they are different in a sweet and endearing way.. not because of looks.
2006-10-27 18:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i remember this guy was gorgeous i mean the body the face everything and i liked him so much.But he was so arrogant and felt he was superior and i was just shaking my head and say he has the face and the body but the personalty sucks
2006-10-27 18:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yesh this has happend. i met a guy once wen i went to another state to visit a friend. i stayed there for a week. and i got to meet alot of the ppl he knew (friends, etc). and i met this one guy. honestly until this very day i still think he's been the best friggin guy i've ever met or seen in my ENTIRE life. he was hott from head to toe. but his personality was pretty bad. he wasn't very bright (to get it right, he was straight up dumb. he didn't kno squat). hes also is a player and is jux full of himself. so reali good lookin ppl arent always the best. wen on the other hand i knew many ppl who wen i first met was soo ugly but soon they became 'goodlooking' becuz of how great their personality is.
2006-10-27 18:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by ursosexxii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally speaking no, since I havent asked strangers out...tend to wait until I know a little more about them than thier name and physical features. But since I plan to jump back into the game very shortly, I am sure this will happen soon enough.
2006-10-27 18:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never gave any gorgeous ones time of day cuz they were too arrogant.
2006-10-27 18:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Augh!! I hate that! its happened to me so much. i was talkin to this one girl and she seemed so cool and "real" but as i got to know her, she started seeming bossy and demanding and just-not my type. and i'm not good at taking orders from anyone. and it hasnt happened in just relationships, its happened it friendships too. i guess "what glitters aint always gold!''
2006-10-27 18:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Chris L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is sad, but I always walked away from those. It is useless...
2006-10-27 18:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋