the thing is, she said that she had too much stuff on her hands at the time and so did i. We talked on the phone a lot, but I felt terrible everyday that i couldn't see her. So i decided we should wait since it wasn't a good time...
Then, about 4 weeks later.... i heard that she was dating her ex-boyfriend... I know she isn't playing me... i even asked her straight forward if she left me because of him... or if i did something to her... she replied no to both questions... her and i are still friends... but i just want something more..... it has been driving me to the point of going crazy... please help me
2006-10-27 11:41:52 · 17 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating him as in sleeping with? I'd let the ho go. Dating him as in chatting and holding hands? I'd give it a shot.
2006-10-27 11:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by WJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really think about what you are asking! If she has become a real good friend you may not want to lose your friendship with that person.
I understand that you still care for her but maybe you are just infatuated with the thought that you can't have her. She chose to be with someone else! Remember there are always more fish in the sea to chose. Don't waist your time on something that may never happen. If it was meant for you to be together then it will be maybe not now but later...
2006-10-27 11:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bernie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has already move on then dont play yourself, you need to move on too. If she wanted things to work out between the two of you she would no have went and started dating someone else, espically not her ex. Move on baby, and remember sometimes still being friends is not the best route to take.
2006-10-27 11:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by mizz_toree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these mortals and their simpleton explanations. Listen to a God on earth and what I think. Just because she's perfect for you, does'nt mean youre perfect for her. People that are in love and that God made for each other just don't as you said "wait for a good time". Sounds like shes putting you on the back burner. I want to reach through the screen and slap some testicles into you. Stand up for yourself! Tell her you're either down for me or you're not , because you love her and you want to be with her. Period, she either accepts or you move on. When you do love don't do it half ****, do it like you mean it.
2006-10-27 11:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u did not do anything to feel worse and she is with another guy rite now so u have to wait. Once she breaks up with him tell her ur true emotions and feelings and maybe she'll have feelings 4 u. Anywayz she may still have feelings 4 u!
U luv her and that is wat counts. Do not go crazy, just be glad ur friends and then take it to somtin more after she is finished wit her present bf!
2006-10-27 11:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling i am not sure she didn't play you but i can't judge her or you
I just want you to be happy-if this is driving you crazy then it is not the right thing for you.
I think you should move on but that is just my opinion-you have to decide for yourself
God Bless
2006-10-27 11:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she feels the same way about you.
But don't go all suicidal if it's not the answer you wanted to hear. People come and go. Maybe she is not the girl GOd wanted you to be with. Or maybe she is.
2006-10-27 11:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoooo! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR, THE ONLY THING IS NOW SHES TAKEN, DONT INTERFERR IN THIS THOU, IF YOU REALLY ARE SERIOUS ABOUT HER, THEN ASK HER ON THE SIDE ARE YOU TAKEN WHICH YOU SAY SHE IS--- HARD CHOICE HERE, I WOULD GO AFETER HER BUT, LIKE WE SAY IT MAY BE TOO LATE-- FOR YOU TOO, WE DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WAITED SO LONG FOR THOU--- YOU CANT HAVE SOMETHING MORE IF SHES ALREADY TAKENN---
2006-10-27 11:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with her date her. If u can't find no one else and u just no she is the one and u want to try it to see if it would work do it. You don't have nothin to loose.
2006-10-27 11:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it man
you will regret forever if you dont do something now
worst thing that can happen is that it doesnt work out
but at least you tried
2006-10-27 14:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by The "Truth" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋