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Question

ok, i really like this boy, but he doesnt like me. i have freckles, curly/ frizzy medium hair, and blue eyes. my skin is pretty pale. what can i do. girls- what kind of make up, and how ahould i apply it. espsecially eyeshadow. (by the way, my parents dont really like it, so something that looks somewhat natural)
boys and girls- how should i act, what should i do. oh, we do theatre together at school, so we spend a lot of time together, but no really.
girls- i wear pants for rehersal- maybe some style ideas. HAIR STYLES PLEASE!!!!!
but nothing too tight, i am not the skinnieast person in the world.

Answer 1

first off, stop concentrating on looks and more personality.

if this guy is so shallow that he cares about nothing else, then get over him and get your cute freckled face, and blue eyes to some one who's worth the opening show.

are you sure you like this guy? if you are, then fine..i give up and i'll give you style tips, but only because you like this guy...

1. if you have acne/pimples some mild base and blush with not nly cover some of those freckles, but add some natural pinkish tone to your cheeks.

2. next, your hair sounds okay except for the frizz. either blow dry, straighten, or enhance your curl. If it takes way too long to try to get your hair straight and thinner, then either use panteen mousse (or whatever else works) and scrunch your hair after you get out of the shower and towel dry it a bit. it'll look great. if you're okay with straightening or blow drying, go ahead and do it...if your hair is hopeless no matter what, a cute bun or pony tail never hurts.

3. i'm in theatre myself and sweatpants are perfect for reharsal...would you rather be great at getting around the stage or wear a skirt and trip face-flat on the floor. Wear cute-sweatpants with a messy bun and let your pants be longer, and wear cute converse sneakers or beach sandals.

4. eyeshadow? don't go crazy dear. i mean, you want to look like your not wearing makeup. BUT, since you have pretty eyes, where a bit of eyeliner or mascara (only a bit) to make your blye eyes stand out a bit...no eyeshadow...that's overated...


have fun...and only take my advice if you like this guy a lot...hope i helped!!!

Answer 2

I got blessed with pale skin,too.(I was exaggerating.)I could recommend some frizz-ease.If you ca,use a straightener.If you don't have a straightener,then try to find some kind of conditioner and shampoo that tames frizzy hair.Light pinks or clear glosses worlk well with pale skin.Go easy on the eyeshadow-no blues,purples,greens,oranges,etc.Use colors that coordinate with your skin.Keeping it natural means not going wild on the make-up.Instead of wearing eyeliner,you could try wearing some mascara.Sometimes,black mascara is too dark on pale skinso I'd also recommend brown mascara.Use covergirl foundation.A lot of times girls use too dark or too much foundatrion,which looks awful.Use a lighter foundation,which will also make it look more natural.If your eyebrows aren't plucked,then get tweasers and do it yourself,or go get your eyebrows waxed.And no,it doesn't hurt.I hope I helped.Good luck!

Answer 3

Am WAY too old to offer you fashion advice, but as for the frizzy hair thing, I may be able to help. My hair's been curly/wavy/frizzy all my life. I've tried all kinds of stuff to de-friz without success. A few weeks back I picked up "Pantene Frizz Control" conditioner. I went back the next week to get the shampoo. I can be out in a steady drizzle and not get all frizzed up...... It's great.
I found it at Target. I looked in a couple other stores when I went to buy the shampoo but, no luck. So it was back to Target!!
Good luck!

Answer 4

ok i have really wavy hair and it gets pretty big when not tamed. when i'm in a hurry i dry it with a towel and then a little gel and spritz. really brings out the curl in it. and then other times i straighten it, before you do so put some kind of frizz control or straightening creme in it, it will have a more healthy look to it..
on the clothing depending on what sz you are i probably would just go with something that is comfortable. big girls should not wear real tight clothing, some just don't get it.

Answer 5

growing up i was a skinny, frizzy haired girl with pale skin and dark hair and hazel eyes. im the total opposite now so maybe i can be of some help.

hair:
put some mousse in ur hair if u dont have time to flat iron your hair...just put a little bit (about the size of a lemon) in ur hair and scrunch it with ur fingers...if its still too puffy(not frizzy) put it halfway back or in a cute messy ponytail...u can make messy ponytails cuter with a headband or ribbon

make-up:
if u have pimples dont over-do the make-up...ull just look worse...a little powder with a light pink/rosy or peachy color...curl your eyelashes-it'll make ur blue eyes pop-out...u really shouldnt use eyeshadow or mascara when ur at school. save it for when you go out...if u wear too much make-up to school, u end up looking like if ur trying too hard...i know ur parents have probably said if u put on too much make up youll look like a clown...IT S TRUE!!! but when u do go out use light silvery undertones. REMEMBER: chapstick and lip-gloss are a girls best friend!!

be nice to the boy...why dont you ask him for some help next time in class when u see him alone...even if u dont need the help or try sneakily to find out a common interest...if u have the guts bring it up to him in class...if theres a friend that knows u like him try bringing him/her along to start the conversation...its easier when u feel ur not alone. and style-wise, just be yourself...jeans and a t shirt never fail you!!!

Answer 6

Your hair sounds pretty OK to me and if you have a crush on this boy, try talking to him and USE FLIRTING AND WAVING YOUR HAIR WHEN YOU'RE AROUND HIM ALWAYS WORK. But most important always be yourself and be happy with who you are because if he truly likes you he'll like you by who you are. Use makeup in specially pink and pastel colors you'll look pretty and young at the same time.

Answer 7

Don't do anything unless your doing it for yourself,he doesn't like you,accept it.But i bet there's more at your school that does.Stop chasing something you can't have,you'll go through all this just to find out he still doesn't like you,then what Will you do?Fake boobs,wigs,more make up?don't like your skin color,go to a tanning shop,by the time your done,you may not know who YOU are.Hope you understand what I'm tying to say here.Good luck.Be yourself.

Answer 8

i don't know how old you are, but laughter is one of the intangibles in starting and maintaining a successful relationship. you have to become appealing by letting the person know you are interested, however, you are not going to do stupid things to get him. clothing is not necessarily the issue but conversation without analyzation, supporting but not agreeing, and being vulnerable while letting the person know you are strong when necessary...no man i know wants to see a lot of make-up...lasting relationship start with displaying the person you are...otherwise you will not be able to maintain a facade for very long - and so goes the relationship...

Answer 9

Dont worry about using makeup, most guys like the natural look, including myself. If you think you need to exercise, then do it. Keep eating, but eat healthy. Just relax and be yourself, flirt with him.

Answer 10

Trust me, you don't want to go changing to please people. Just keep your hair neat, and any skin blemishes covered up, and wear clothes that flatter your figure. Most importantly- SMILE! Let your natural beauty shine through!