love is such a strong word. you have to of at least of known the person for a long while to say i love you!
2006-10-27 11:14:02 · 30 answers · asked by hotstuff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've also wondered about that. Don't people really know what love is? I think they feel attracted and like the person but like you said, it takes a long time for true love to develop.
2006-10-27 11:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have never used the love word after a few dates. Maybe thats me or I have never met anyone who i would want to say this to after a few dates, however, I am in love with my wife and it was a few months before I let her know my feelings, and at that stage It comes very natuarally. Being too pushy raises suspicious thoughts, especially after only a few dates
2006-10-27 11:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know...but my husband, when we were going out when we were just teens, he told me that he loves me after few dates...and so did I. He ended up being my husband and we've been married for a long time already. We didn't have relationships in bed till we married either...so I don't think all of the men says that because they wants to get laid. I guess it really depends on the guy!
2006-10-27 11:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes and because love is a strong word some people use it loosely knowning full well you dont love a person in a few dates
2006-10-27 11:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SOMETIMES they say it cause they want some sex, other time they think they are but they dont really know what love is yet, other times, they try to make you happy so they say what they think you want to hear, or maybe he may really feel that way. i knew my current boyfriend for about 4 months and he said that he loved me before he even asked me out. he was just telling me how he felt. so then like a fwe minutes he asked me out and we have been going together for 10 months. the guy who says it MAY really mean it.
2006-10-27 11:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a big difference between love. and being in love. you love your friends. your family. but being in love takes time. dont be too freaked out. he just has strong feelings for you. hes not ready to get married
2006-10-27 11:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by rlt101010 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They say I Love You after a few dates because they think that's what you want to hear..........men have a one track mind and think if they say that so soon.....it's their penis talking........and nothing else.......also they think this is a surefire way to make yu think they really mean it....especially if they say it enough......interpretation "Come on girl are you going to f me or what?!" Soften them up and move in for the kill. They can't help it. Works almost every time......that's why you might hear it so much so soon.
2006-10-27 11:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by jazi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe you are such a gem, men realized they can't do better.
Also, keep in mind where you meet these guys.
2006-10-27 11:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by resiste_lfc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont Get your hopes up when he tells you he loves you.. trust me if its only been a few dates then he is telling you that cuz he thinks it is what you wanna hear.. tell him that you don't want him to tell you that just to satisfy you! if he means it you will know it!
♥ Kayla
2006-10-27 11:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've olny ever told 1 girl i loved her,
and i won't tell anotherone untill i'm very sure
there are better ways to get into someones pants then telling them what you think they want to hear. not that thats the only reason, maybe these guys just want to be told thats they're loved...... um, ya... thats the ticket.........
2006-10-27 11:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Br@d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋