please give advice..?

Question

i'm really trying lately to do what i want to do, and not care what others think. but its hard for me..any advice??

BTW..i have never changed my user name..

Answer 1

i understand completely.i unsed to ALWAYS care want people thought of me and always wanted to be like everyone else and not my own person. but you ahve to be your own person or you will never be you. It took me uintil my senior year to found who i really was and that took 3months away from everyone i knew and round people that didn't know me at all. and so i had to show them who I was not who i thought i was. so when i came back i was like " if you don't like me for who I am then you are not my true friends so F*CK OFF!!!!!! Good luck and be yourself

Answer 2

be more social when ur drunk, that way u build up a rep. of acting in such a manner that u dont care what others think. dont let them know ur drunk (not all the way, just buzzed).


ok, really though. The reason you are acting in accordance with what you think others want you to do is because of your own low self esteem. Do things that you like to do and feel good doing. Playing sports or hobbies. When you accomplish things then it makes u feel better about urself. Also try going to the gym. It does wonders on ur self esteem. You get good feelings knowing that you are bettering urself and the endorphines that are getting used/ whatever they do, are making you feel better naturally too.

Once you do things that make you feel good about urself, you'll gain self esteem and then you'll be strutting ur stuff and not caring what others think.

good luck

Answer 3

Just take a deep breath and go for it. Seriously. Its not what other people think thats important. Its your decision. Like take it this way. If you happen to get pregnant and you're in love with the guy and he wants to take care of you AND the baby. But everyone else thinks that you should get an abortion. Would you kill your baby just because THEY think that it the best for YOU? No, I think not. So just follow your heart and have lots of fun. Good luck chick.

Answer 4

Obviously, you care about others. Try doing what you want that benefits others. An interesting mix that combines self with compassion. Have a great life;not just a good one.

Answer 5

Be yourself, it maybe hard but nothing else gives me more pleasure than knowing that I'm a honest person who people respects because of her loyalty. Do what's best for you that's the best advice I can give you.

Answer 6

Keep tryin cause I recently started doing that and well It feels a whole lot better. And you shouldn't care what they think. If they don't like you that means you weren't put there to like you!

Answer 7

YES!< one piece of advice..do not listen to anything that the thought police post on here or any males..they do not understand a thing about you or your lack of confidence..get out more.....

Answer 8

I made a new years resolution 25 years ago...I keep it every year...I resolved to be happy..to make decisions that make me happy and to not be afraid to make those decisions because of other people.
I do not set out to hurt people but I do not let their hurt stop me from making my decision.

Answer 9

You may have some self esteem issues. Work on your self. Treat people as you would want to be treated!

Answer 10

well...does sound like you are growingup..trying to choose what is the right thing to do and do it..no matter what people say...or if at all it is the right thing to begin with.....no one can give you any advise....but when ever you need emotional support look towards your family ..momor dad or sister or boy friend...you need a emotional cirlce to keep you going...if you dont find any....come backhere...we will listen....but wat matters is do as you please and learn from each experience...live life..not get though it ...right!!!!
:) Best of luck!