here's the question my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and i am so upset ii dunno what to do i am so upset !! any advise??
2006-10-27 11:00:26 · 27 answers · asked by cherry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ditch these two losers..how dare they do this to you.
2006-10-27 11:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's painful sweetie but you've got to be strong. The best way to get them back is move on, get you a new guy and she was never your friend so be careful with your friend selections.
Word of advice from and ole player baby girl keep your friends away from your man don't even introduce them to him. When you're going to be with your bf tell your friends, I'll see ya later.
Before you kick em both to the curb send them both an anonymous note from your local clinic advising them that someone that they have had a relationship with has been diagnosed with AIDS. That oughta shake them up the fkrs'
2006-10-27 11:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel my ex boyfriend did the same we were together for 3 years and me and my friend were like sisters thats how long we knew each other i no i should have forgot and forgave her but i just couldn't bear to look at her so i had to end the friendship and the relationship with my boyfriend cause they lost my trust and they hurt me more then ever...if he cared about u he would have never cheated and if she was any friend she would have said no and called u to tell u that ur boyfriend is a sucker i hope everything works out for u
2006-10-27 11:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by dorothy_pierce2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump both of them, quickly. If he was your guy and she was your friend they wouldn't have done this. Whatever you do, don't talk crap about the situation to anyone. Cry all you need to cry, don't ever speak to them again and move on. Keep your head up and you'll find someone who's makes you happy. Besides, that's the best revenge. Maybe she'll get knocked up and then they'll be miserable. Good luck!!!
2006-10-27 11:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both lied to you constantly every time they saw you from the second they first started flirting behind your back. When was he going to start telling you he was going down on her and then coming home and soul kissing you? When was she going to tell you she knows exactly what his johnson looks like?
Neither deserves your trust or friendship.
More importantly, they both deserve each other - a couple of lying snakes who will bang anything that slithers by.
You are better off with a better class of friend and lover.
2006-10-27 11:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You don't need a cheater in your life; and you're "best friend" obviously isn't a good friend to just decieve you like that! Ditch the guy, and ditch the biatch; trust me, you don't need those kinds of fakes and freaks in your life. There are a lot of nicer, sweeter, and hotter guys out there, and there are a lot of nice girls that will really enjoy your friendship in a non-fake way. You just need to look a bit more.
2006-10-27 11:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen but if it's really something special that you two share stay with him. Everyone deserves second chances just let him know that what you two have is special and if he wants it to stay that way he needs to respect your feelings.
As for your friend it maybe hard to get over but if she's a true friend she won't have done that. Even though she deserves a second chance as well but if it continues then you need to cut them both.
2006-10-27 11:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by La La 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the problem here is not the boyfriend issue but how could you BEST FRIEND do that to you???
lose the boyfriend ASAP.
and lose the best friend even faster.
my best friend and I would NEVER do that to each other no matter how much the guy wanted us or how sexy they are.
you need a better friend
2006-10-27 11:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some best friend, some boyfriend. Dump them both. They are both losers and deserve each other.
2006-10-27 11:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point your best friend will tell you she only tried going for him to prove to you how worthless he is.
This will be a lie.
The boyfriend will say he didn't try to go for her, that she came on to him and nothing happened.
This too will be a lie.
Dump them both.
2006-10-27 11:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
throw them both to the curb and hey if he has a cute bestfriend or friend go out with him see how hes gonna feel after that
2006-10-27 11:13:39 · answer #11 · answered by aliaunique06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋