I like her, and everyone at school says we should go out, but i can't seem to find a time to ask her out, and what to say. But we are both in a Jazz Band, and where we play our instruments (me bass guitar, she piano) we are right next to eachother. And we live in the same neighborhood, and we carpool a lot, and we get to practice like 10 minutes early, so that might be a good time to do it. I think she likes me, but she never shows any signs of it. please help!
2006-10-27 10:53:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now that is ridiculous...just ask her out.
2006-10-27 10:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she looks at you, and when she looks at you, and you look at her, and you meet eyes, if she looks away before you do without smiling that means one of two things. She either doesn't like you, and she maybe bothered by that eye contact, OR, she is merely shy about you and asking herself, "does he like me?" when in reality, she hasn't really thought about it. If this is the case, you can either give up and save yourself the energy or try your hardest to be nice and befriend her until one day, she will do what I am about to tell you next.
If you somehow meet eyes, and she does not look away, if she even adds a small smile, this means that she is interested in you. IF this is the case, you must hurry, before she second thinks it. Surprise her at her car, school, work, or home, give her a flower and tell her how you really feel.
There is another case, which is harder than the others to distinguish. This girl that you like might be the type to play mind games. By mind games, i mean that she acts one way, but feels another, all in order to confuse you into liking her. This does not necessarily mean that she likes you. You must becareful of such women, for they are snakes; only after your money, energy, or even sex. Due to the deceitful nature of attractive women, you will not be able to distinguish the situation until you've 1, known her for over a year, or 2, had a sexual encounter with her.
If you suspect that it is the above case, and you still want to hook up with this girl, there are things you can do. First, you MUST NOT give her any attention. YOU must also play the game. Every once in a while, show that you are attracted to her by greeting her nicely, but then sometimes forget to say goodbye. A prolonged courtship of showing affection and showing uninterest can land you possibly in her you know what. Thank you for listening. I hope this helps.
2006-10-27 11:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Well i have this problem before too! I found out the best thing to do is ask her......it doesnt have to be immediate but little by little build up to getting around to it! At first show signs that u like her.... flirt and jus act natual around her! Then wen u think she likes u and has shown signs that she does make your move! I hope your result come out possitive!!
2006-10-27 11:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Leigha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST ASK HER OUT! if you really like her, then do it. its worth a try right? i mean, if she really likes you too, and you never ask her, she might get over you and get another guy, thinking your not interested. but you still will be and then there will be nothing you can do. just go for it. the worst thing that can happen is she will say no and you can move on with one less question to be wondering about
2006-10-27 10:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by mittenscat6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem and I asked her out, she said no. The thing is that I was happy that I asked her out and its all done with.
You should ask her out because you'll regret it if u don't and maybe she will say yes and I bet u don't have as a bad streak of getting a date like me
2006-10-27 19:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ridiculous. Ask out now.
2006-10-30 05:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋