theres this guy that i like. i told him i liked him and he said he felt the same about me. he wanted to hang out with me, but then i got grounded. now i asked him this weekend again and he keeps telling me he'll call me back. and he never does. there are many other hot guys that i like. should i give up on this one even though i really like him? im confused
2006-10-27 10:42:23 · 22 answers · asked by ososweet92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may have thought that you were blowing him off and weren't really grounded. You sound young (because you got grounded) so there are plenty more fish in the sea and you don't need to go to the next guy just because you want a boyfriend because then what kind of chance are you giving that relationship? I would say don't date for the sake of dating, date for the sake of getting to know someone you want to know better.
hope that helped :)
2006-10-27 10:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by richelle_la_belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you take the initiative and call him if you like him that much? if he still seems lukewarm about his feelings for you, then move on.
either that or he's holding back because he doesn't know you very well yet. maybe he's trying to build up the whole friendship thing before you guys go out on an official date.
2006-10-27 17:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sydney A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear this simply means he`s postponing and just paying u the lip service rather than really interested in u .So better look 4 others who r there 4 u.
2006-10-27 17:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Friend always there 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys act like cats. Cats generally don't want you if you want them, they don't like receiving unsolicited attention, and they like to watch you for a while before they make decision. And, like cats, when they decide they want you then they are all over you and you can't get rid of them. But piss a cat off and that might be it for a long time. Keep this in mind and its hard to go wrong when you are trying to figure out does he like me or not stuff.
2006-10-27 17:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a lot of things.
1. He doesn't have enough respect for you.
2. He's lazy.
3. He forgets easily.
I wouldn't bother with "hot" guys, but rather guys with good personalities. Lots of girls I met have told me they regret wasting their times on "hot" guys.
2006-10-27 17:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by krunkee1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try to get along with him for 2 days but after that and he still doesn't call u back move on and do it qiuckly because once he knows u don't like him anymore he will try to get back in your good graces then uwill be acskin this same question again.
2006-10-27 17:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to "give up"-- just leave him alone for awhile. It's usually a mistake to pursue someone if he's giving you a signal that he's maybe not as into it as before (i.e., saying he'll call you and then not calling).
2006-10-27 17:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Scarlett_156 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get hung up on the ones that don't call back you are just setting yourself up for the future move on to bigger and better.
2006-10-27 17:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is worth waiting around for. Move on and see what happens. He may come back to you.
2006-10-27 17:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him one more chance and if he still doesn't call then go to the next guy.
2006-10-27 17:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋