Don't we all, married or not, think about making love? If we were not supposed to enjoy it, than why do our bodies respond so well. Our bodies respond sometimes whether we want them to or not.
2006-10-27 10:41:55 · 23 answers · asked by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Thinking about it is fun.
Erotic messaging is more fun.
2006-10-27 11:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Blackacre 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Who said thinking about it is so bad? Allah created us this way for the preservation of mankind and for our enjoyment as well. It is bad when 'your body responds with someone other than your wife or husband' (can't remember if you were male or female!
But still if you are not married, better don't think about it too much so that you do not put pressures on yourself or push yourself towards sin.
Peace
2006-10-27 17:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by daliaadel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thinking about sex isn't bad just when that's all u ever think about is when it could get bad and it could ruin a good relationship it almost wrecked mine my husband would constantly ask me for sex from the time i woke up until the time i went to sleep it gets annoying really when u cant even lay on the couch by him without him asking for sex
2006-10-27 17:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll be shocked, without looking at any answer, if someone agrees with you, independent of their belief inclination.
Edit: I just peeked and one group of people are speaking for another group of people. I used to go to a large Baptist Church and the pastor often said, in marraige, sex is GREAT.
In Corpus Christi, Bay Area Fellowship, 3000 people, a video clip had the wife of the pastor, taking him in a stroller, to his favorite store, Victoria's Secret.
2006-10-27 17:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cogito Sum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thinking about sex is not bad or a sin. Thinking about anything is not a sin. God does not punish us for thoughts or count them as sins. It's only when we act upon bad thoughts that we are doing wrong (or commiting sin). Sex should not be demonized... it is a pure and holy thing when done in accordance with God's law (i.e. marriage).
peace
2006-10-27 17:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mustafa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about sex isn't bad unless it borders on psychologically deviant. For the majority of the population it is a normal healthy state to be in and shouldn't be treated like the red-headed step-child.
2006-10-27 17:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by genaddt 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with sex in-and-of itself (as it was created pure by God) and nothing in the Bible that states otherwise; the misuse of sex however is wrong and is emotionally destructive and is spoken against in the Bible for good reason... it's not LOVE and LOVE is the only thing Christ taught.
2006-10-27 17:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by Weldon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who told you just thinking about sex is so bad? You will always meet people who will tell you, this is bad or that is bad, and never explain why, so why feel bad if there is no reason for you to feel bad about just thinking about sex. Even people lusting in their hearts are condemned by some other people, I think lusting is more than just thinking.
2006-10-27 17:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by me_worry? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with thinking about sex with your spouse - in fact that's a good thing.
Outside of marriage, I avoid thinking about sex with anyone else because our thoughts become our words, which become our actions.
2006-10-27 17:47:14 · answer #9 · answered by daisyk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL! holly h is a wonderful example of the average christian intellect!
in case you hadn't noticed, everything that the bible says is bad is human nature to do--the way I look at it is that if god didn't want us to have sex for pleasure, he wouldn't have made it so much fun
2006-10-27 17:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex being bad is a puritanical Christian thought---------another of these guilt trip things pushed upon Christians. They are good at that.
2006-10-27 17:47:24 · answer #11 · answered by Shossi 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋