she contacted him, they emailed ALOT and talked on the phone and IM's they met up i found out and put a stop and now i find out he's still at it! i REALLY want to send her a nasty email, should i???
2006-10-27 10:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by alura_06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably has him on 'her side' so sending her a nasty email will only make him feel sorry and apologetic to her whimpering. That's what my ex did when I called his Who** and told her to stay away from my husband. Then, I stayed around for a few more years of manipulation and secrets and lies from him. Then, I divorced him. He's not that happy. Im not that particular sad about it.
2006-10-27 10:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you really want to stop & ask yourself is why do you want to send her a nasty email, she’s not the one who took vows. The thing is you can send her a nasty email, maybe she'll stop talking to your husband maybe she won't, but either way if he's doing this w/her now, what’s to stop him once she's gone from doing it w/another woman. The problem as I see it really doesn't lie in the girl but in your husband. I don't know exactly what an 'emotional affair' is? I can make a guess from what your saying. If they are already meeting & dating & seeing each other sorry to break it to you he's having an affair, weather or not he's had sex (I mean if my boyfriend started dating another girl...how would he not be cheating on me?). If he's lied this far about everything then how do you know he hasn't lied about that anyway? You might want to have yourself checked (for std's) just in case, it's not the classiest of women that sleep w/other women's husbands. Which ever way you have a husband that is acting awfully shady & very inappropriate for a married man. Of course if it was me I more then likely would have called her (not emailed her) and told her off. This of course would be after I'd beaten my husband over the head w/a frying pan & tied him up in the basement for a week w/only bread & water, to teach him a good & proper lesson...but that's me & I have something of a temper! I'm sure that wouldn't be the best course of action. But it should work if you want to give it a go...otherwise (never an advocate for divorce) but leave the lying scum bag. Maybe then he’ll come to senses maybe not but your life would be less problematic that’s for sure.
2006-10-27 18:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Little Nell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont send her any emails because it will make u look insecure as if u cant live without him. What u should do is to discuss the situation with ur hubby again and threaten him that if he continues to contact her then u r going to leave
If ur hubby loves u then he will stop if he doesnt then it means that he does not value u at all.
2006-10-27 17:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
Sure guys cheating is something very common, but usually that ends in divorce. He may want to get back together with his old GF. I would just tell him you want a divorce.
2006-10-27 18:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by mlbfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't send her anything I would keep track of anything that is incriminating against him then use it with the divorce papers. Let your lawyers deal with them. It is obvious that he still cares for her or wants her confront him about it give him an ultimatum then let him decide you or her.But be prepared because he will call your bluff.
2006-10-27 17:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her face to face how you feel. Then demand husband to stop all contact with her. If he does then your marriage has a chance, if not leave and take all you can. Life is way too short to live with someone you can not trust.
2006-10-28 08:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Buster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disconnect your ISP and get rid of the computer for a start. Then either go to marital counseling or see a lawyer.
2006-10-27 17:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should because she doesn't need to be mseein with your man but if u do this then u have to realize there may come a time were she might want to fight ans u have to back ur self up so don't put out what u might not can talk back if u know wat i mean!
2006-10-27 17:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well confront him but gently as anger will put him further away. if you still desire a relationship to continue drop the anger and look for solutions. thats the only way to save it.
2006-10-27 17:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by edwardhayn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce hubby for cheating on you..
2006-10-27 17:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋