Just today. He got pissed and this is why....
We're sitting in class and this guy says to me "hey, how about Autumn's hair today, didn't it look great?" (Autumn is this really annoying girl in our 2nd block.) And I said Oh yeah being sarcastic. And my boyfriend gets mad at me for talking to the guy?! He said I "have no reason to talk to any guys" but I told him that I'm a people person, and I like people. And he twists it around to say that I want to talk to guys. I just want to talk to people and it's like he's trying to make me unsociable. I even told him so...what do I do?!??!?!? (we've been together a year and this whole "guy thing" has just gotten worse. =[ )
2006-10-27 10:37:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump this loser..he has no right to tell you who you can and cannot talk to...he will do the exact same to any other girl he dates.
2006-10-27 10:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already jealous and you guys are still in school, then honey, it will only get worse. I know you guys have been together for what you consider a long time, but it might be best to end this relationship now, especially if you want to be sociable with other guys and you totally were doing nothing wrong by talking to that guy. Lose that guy, keep your friends and have a good time just being you!
2006-10-27 10:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by paula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very controlling and will probably grow up to be either a batterer or an emotionally abusive man. Therefore, his behavior needs to be "nipped" in the bud. Be assertive and tell him that you don't like to be controlled and that you will talk to whomever you want. It's important to call his behavior for what it is (i.e., controlling). Maybe he'll wake up and change. He learned this behavior somewhere- perhaps his father? It's dysfunctional.
2006-10-27 10:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i was 14 i got hook up with a guy who was jealous and would not let me talk to anymore i even had to let him see what i was wearing to school so he could approve of it he had me watch and every day i would come home from school and got accussed of cheating, it ruin my life i dropped out of school when i was 17 we broke up only to be married when i was 21 he never change i would have to beep him before i got off work, he would be in the parking lot waiting for me and would follow me home in a diff car..this went on for 19 yrs until i left him and when i did the only i could take was our child i had to give him the land and trailer so i could get a quick divorce.. dont let this happen to you run .. run as fast as you can and get away from him if he is that jealous now what will he be like in 5 to 10 years i am betting his behavior did not start out this way in the beginging and that it got worse as time went by .. dont be like me 42 yrs old with so many regrets
2006-10-27 10:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no guy has a right to tell you you can't talk to any guys. I understand if you were talking to guys to date them or something along those lines but just talking to guys should not be a problem. Has his jealousy gotten worse over time? is this a recent thing that he wants you to stop talking to guys?
Maybe something is going on with him, take a step back and try and see what's realy going on with him
2006-10-27 10:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is being WAY too insecure. Just because you have a social life outside of your relationship with him, doesn't mean that you're planning to cheat on him or anything. Don't listen to him. Talk to whomever you want.
2006-10-27 11:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems ur bf is a jealous guy. Explain to him what you want in your relationship. And try to point out what is the negative effect of being insecure in your relationship.
2006-10-27 10:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by lhen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak. You can talk to whoever you want. Don't let him control you like that. It'll only get worse. Dump him and move on.
2006-10-27 10:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know usally i read somewhere that if your bf starts saying things like telling you how to dress or not to talk to other guys that's the first step to abuse. i am not saying he's going to abuse you but you need to tell him that you are his girl not they're and if he can't take them being your friend then tell step.and if he doesn't change dump him.
2006-10-27 10:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jaybezchild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋