I have been bi-curious for some time. Of course my boyfriend has no problem with it as it is a typical fantasy for men but I am worried it would ruin our relationship and not sure if it is worth making the fantasy a reality. Any thoughts on this?
2006-10-27 10:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by bicurious374 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it!
2006-10-29 14:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people it works out really well. For some people, it is a disaster. Talk about it with him a lot before you do anything. Then, when you think you've talked it all out, talk about it some more. Some times guys will have an unrealistic idea of what will happen. He might think that if you find a girlfriend, she'll be all over him, when in reality if you find a girlfriend she might not want to touch him at all. Talk about how he sees it going, how you see it going, how they're different, how they're the same, what would turn you off, what would turn him off, what kind of girl do you see inviting, what kind of girl would he like to see you invite, etc.
Also, if you do invite another girl, you be the one to pick her. It helps stop some of the jealousy that can come up otherwise, since you can pick a girl you don't need to feel competition with.
2006-10-31 09:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have had threesomes a few times, she is very bi.
We decided before we did it the first time, it would only be by her rules. It has been awesome for us and we have every intension of continuing with it.
Once in a while she will have a "friend" (girl) over and they just want to do thier own thing, that is fine with me the rewards later (after the friend is gone) are awesome. But you have to be strong in your relationship, and have NO jealousy.
2006-10-27 18:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of you have your head on straight about it, and it isn't being done for selfish reasons (meaning you both are on board with it) than you won't have any problems. If one person is being coerced into it, than you will. Fantasies are to be shared.
2006-10-30 18:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dive in head first, the water's just fine!! Plus if you enjoy it, who needs him?
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2006-10-27 18:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did it with 2 bi gays before it fun that way
2006-10-27 17:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him plz dont ..if u hate him ..its your decision...
2006-10-27 17:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋