what can be done to make sex better for you?
2006-10-27 10:26:51 · 26 answers · asked by Thebronx 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I had a clit. I bet that would help.
2006-10-27 10:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by betsymaemae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a pretty broad question, but I'll try to answer it. First, I'm going to assume that you have someone who is very special to you, and that, perhaps, your sex life is a bit awkward or unsatisfying right now. The most important thing is to communicate about your likes and dislikes when it comes to sex. If you like something he does, let him know!!! Same think if there's something that you don't like. For some reason, a lot of people who engage in sex have a very difficult time verbalizing about it. If you are looking for specific techniques, you might try reading "The Joy of Sex" and/or other books along that line. Just remember that no book is going to do your talking for you. If you are able to open up to someone so intimately as to have sex with them, then you should be prepared to talk about it in order to get the satisfaction you seek from it. Hope this helps!!!
2006-10-27 17:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ann F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things. Firstly don't expect it just to be great. Sex is technical and you got to do all the correct things. Its like baking a cake. You need the ingredients and mix it correctly in the correct order. If you not prepared to be open and adventurous its a lost case. You have to know your own body. Not what they say in books. You have to experiment. Even on your own. And you have to share that with your partner. And you have to do what your partner wants and visa versa. Dare each other to do something "better" to you that you would like. Watch an adult movie together and get tips. Always be prepared to try new things. And forget what you can get out of it. See what you can do to really make it great for your partner. You will be surprised how much of a turn on it is to turn your partner on. If you both do that I can assure you it wont get better.
2006-10-27 17:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by paypaldoppie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carrying out the 4 play longer as well as not rushing things. Also having a connection with the person helps intensify the sex.
2006-10-27 17:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by mariah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, more often would be great.
2nd, it would be great if it were more spontaneous and spur of the moment.
3rd, Make a little noise once in a while. It's okay to let it go.
4th, Go ahead and be a rebel, try something new. Who knows, you just might like it.
2006-10-27 18:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by nicksriders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking time to just kiss and touch-the build up before the event even starts.
2006-10-27 17:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Have more foreplay for like 10 hrs and then you will have the most intense explosion ever...like a volcano!
2006-10-27 17:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ilooklikemyavatar..exactly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty awesome - I can't imagine "better". I just wish it were more frequent! Maybe if I could convince my boyfriend to move in, so I could have it every day....
2006-10-27 17:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend cared about me getting an orgasm and not him being selfish all the time. Sometimes I'll ask him to keep going with something, and he'll refuse. He barely ever touches me to get me off, or cares about me getting off.
2006-10-27 17:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
search the words karma sutra.advanced players only,also
try knowing what stimulates you personnally.
the woman is the pinnacle of sexuallity,what works for you will definitly work for him
2006-10-27 17:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by purpleman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk and tell each other what you want or would like to do. It is hard for your partner to read your mind.
2006-10-27 17:29:15 · answer #11 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋