We both are grown and have grown children. I have other men calling me. I am on the edge of leaving. Should I?
2006-10-27 10:24:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth. You want marriage/a committed relationship and you don't think he does. If he does, he can tell you. If not, both of you can move on. Good luck!
2006-10-27 10:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly whats the rush? Maybe he just doesn't want to get hurt again... or for that much want to rush into anything and make the same mistakes as in the past. But If you really were taking the relationship so serious u wouldn't be talking to other men. That's kind of being a hypocrite. You want him to further the relationship but yet you are talking to other men. If you are both grown stop playing games like a child. Be honest with him and yourself. And think about the children involved.
2006-10-27 10:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have other men calling you then this relationship might be doomed from the start. If he's not giving you what you want now then when you two are in a relationship, are you going to call on of the other men? Never give someone an ultimatim because I guarantee he'll choose to be single. If you're grown, then talk to him like a women and let him know what you want. Don't play games and don't tell him that you have other men calling you. If you really like him, let him know. If he says he's not into you or doesn't want to get more serious then tell that your not going to put you life on hold while he figures out what he wants. Tell him to call you when he figures it out and in the meantime you can date other people without feeling like you're cheating on him. Good luck!!!
2006-10-27 10:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baggage---maybe this person doesn't want to rush into making a mistake----have you sat down and had an honest conversation to this guy about your expectations in your relationship? Maybe he's made it very clear that HE will not be rushed into anything----after all 6 months isn't really that long for a relationship...Now if you have said 6 yrs that would be a different story-----
Be happy with what you have and don't expect anything more.
2006-10-27 10:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i see you have ground children but not mention of grandchildren so you have to be what mid 30s to mid 40s ok 6 month is not really that long of a wait.. but being 42 myself i know you dont want to waste percious years on someone who will leave you in the long run...now the other men calling may be why he is taking his time maybe he thinks he will get hurt himself so he is holding back.. try talking all this out and explain how you truely feel and then you will know which way to turn and good luck
2006-10-27 10:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "further the relationship"?
Maybe you should leave him because it's not good to try and rekindle a flame that was never ignited. What would make you stay, or what has kept you from leaving so far?
2006-10-27 11:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave and never 'further relationships' in life or find a guy who doesn't mind you 'conditionally' loving him, and who doesn't mind you leaving him when you get bored. I wouldn't further any relationships either if you had other men calling you.
2006-10-27 10:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, leave him. He's just one of those older guys that wants an easy fun relationship and nothing serious. He's already done the serious thing and raised his kids, so he figures that he's done his job in life and now he gets a vacation.
2006-10-27 10:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by concretebrunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that sounds like a dead end relationship and your both too old for those kind of games.
2006-10-27 10:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you want to further the relationship? Are you talking marriage?
2006-10-27 10:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋