My mom works nites at a jail on wedensday, thursday, friday, and every other saturday. I really miss her on those nites. i used 2 not but i started crying when she leaves and at nite b4 i go 2 sleep about a week ago. (i'm crying now-she just left a few mins. ago) and about 3 or 4 times now i've woke up thinking some one was in our house, and only once it happened when she was here and didn't have to work. but i now think i did it to myself so she wouldn't go to work that nite. i get really scared now andlast night i had to sleep with in my parents' bed. i really miss her when she leaves and i like her job because gets us alot more money then her old job (my dad works a day job) but i really REALLY miss her and i try to not cry when my sisters or brother or dad or my mom are around so i go into her room get on the computer and cry willl surfing the internet. somtimes i wish school wouldn't end and that the day would go by slow because she leaves when i get home. What should i do?PlzHelp
2006-10-27 10:23:22 · 13 answers · asked by cupidity193 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should sit down and talk to your mother.and also thnk about where would you stay and what would you have if your mother didnt have the job that she have .
2006-10-27 10:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.flowers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweetie, that sounds really hard. It might help if you spend more time with your siblings and your dad. It sounds like you are isolating yourself from them, and that probably just makes you feel worse. You guys could have movie nights together, there are lots of fun things you can do. Also, on the days that your mom works, maybe you can have a friend over for a few hours after school. When your mom IS home, make sure to spend lots of time with her to make up for the nights when she is not there :-) Good luck. With time, you will not feel so bad.
2006-10-27 10:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are between a rock and a hard place. Is this your mom's first night time job away from you? Your mom will be OK. And so will you. Your mom loves you very much. That is why she is working a better job. She wants better things for you. She is trying to do something good for you, not hurt you. So don't be sad, OK?
2006-10-27 10:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her.
my mom had a night time job selling flowers and i cried when she left and i would either sleep in her bed or sleep in my brothers room. it was hard but oonce i told her how i really felt about it she kept it down to a minimum and even sometimes she would go out after i fell asleep.
have u ever went to see what she does? i mean as long as she doesn't let u see the inmates then why not go and see what she does. it might make u feel better.
good luck.
2006-10-27 10:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by guesswhoohme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to you mom and telling her how you feel? Then maybe over time your mom will get a new job with more suitable hours. Or do you have an uncle or somebody that can stay over so you won't be so scared? That could untill she gets a better job. And remember it won't go on forever.
2006-10-27 10:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by The wwe diva of 2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom about this and your dad. You may ask if you or her can call each other a few times on them nights to help you feel better that that is better than the not or restless sleep from your worring.
2006-10-27 10:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you no what, your no longer a lone Ive been ther sooo many timesI Ive have been given 6 youngsters what i might do is in basic terms placed them interior the crib for somewhat permit your self quiet down then return and %. her up additionally I wouldnt hesatate to ask some one to hold her or come over and help. in many cases while thers a clean toddler each physique decide for to take turns carry the toddler! in basic terms attempt to relax and relize its customary for you to experience like that some cases a tub will replace there temper as quickly as they get out! its gonna be ok! solid luck mama!
2016-10-03 00:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by fritch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your mom about this. I know its really hard to understand many things but some times moms just want to do rigth things for their kids, sometimes people have to sacrificie better, special things to be better in this life.
2006-10-27 10:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by sweet candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your mom and dad about how you feel and tell her you want to spend more time with her.
2006-10-27 10:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by karrahbissett11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to stay safe and be good for your parents.I stayed home alone often as a child because I was an only child and had no one to care for me while my mom worked.
2006-10-27 10:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋